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This column will change your life

Oliver Burkeman investigates routes to mental wellbeing
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    Oliver Burkeman's last column: the eight secrets to a (fairly) fulfilled life

    After more than a decade of writing life-changing advice, I know when to move on. Here’s what else I learned
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    Suffering from brain mush? Here’s how to get things done

    It’s hard to focus on one thing if you’re anxious about multiple tasks, but there’s a way through the fog of distraction
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    The best thing you can do to make the world a better place? Sometimes the answer is nothing

    Don’t be fooled into overachieving – it’s often more valuable to simply not screw things up
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    Want to really live in the present? Embrace life’s nasty bits, too

    Decay and decline will show up at our door. The trick is being ready to lay down the welcome mat
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    Psychoanalysing Trump isn't a distraction - it helps us stay sane in troubled times

    It helps if you can grasp that the president and his ilk are prey to the same deep-rooted fears as all of us
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    Overtaxed by all the unfinished tasks hanging over you? There is a solution...

    Trying to store every unwritten report and unfulfilled plan in your brain can be a source of anxiety
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    Do you really need it - or only want it? Here's how to tell the difference

    Next time you have the urge to check your phone, or have a second cocktail, remember you might not enjoy it as much as you think
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    Want to ditch a bad habit? Then just take it one day at a time

    Willpower doesn’t always work: instead of trying to force it, you might need to change your settings in a more natural way
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    Struggling to achieve perfection? This nautical metaphor might help

    In choppy seas, it’s better to mend the sails than return for a total refit
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    Life in a post-coronavirus world: will it feel so very different?

    The majority of people will drift back to their baseline mood of cheery or curmudgeonly, even after seismic events
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    The miracle cure for life's problems? More of what you're already doing

    In difficult times, it’s easy to feel at the mercy of big forces, but we’re more resourceful than we think
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    Don't pretend these aren't dark times: acceptance can be bracing

    You’ll be better able to solve your problems if you stop striving for the impossible
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    How to have fun during lockdown

    Ask yourself Carl Jung’s question: what did you do as a child that made the hours pass like minutes?
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    Is expecting the worst the best way to handle the coronavirus crisis?

    During the pandemic, it’s useful to see the role your coping mechanisms play, if only to stop yourself spiralling into anxiety
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    No spare time in lockdown? That's not such a bad thing

    Coronavirus is teaching us how to focus on the tasks that matter
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    If something’s out of your control, should you still worry about it?

    There’s a freedom that comes with realising you have more influence over your life than you thought
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    Got a problem to fix? Don’t even try – it’s better to think afresh

    The trick is to stop focusing on problems and ask instead what you want to create
  • Illustration of three recycling bags on a podium representing ethical choices

    Would a society of moral saints be a worse place to live?

    We shouldn’t make every decision about how to use our time, or spend our money, on ethical grounds alone
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    Some life problems aren’t especially hard to fix – as long as they're not rushed

    From parenting to a broken dishwasher, it’s often enough just to stop, and look, and wait
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    Don’t give up on cash yet: there’s a value to seeing what you spend

    Cards and contactless are convenient – but New York is right to fight for cash
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