Ditching Your Feelings? Stop Putting Others' Feelings Ahead Of Your Own by Freedom from Attachment published on 2016-06-17T18:18:33Z How often do you put the feelings of others ahead of your own? Maybe more often than you’d like to admit. For me, it started when I was young; my mom’s feelings were always top priority. Then guess what happened down the line in relationships with men? Yep, the same thing. The problem is, we build up resentment when we don’t honor ourselves. We also train people how to treat us. If we put the needs of others ahead of our own, they learn to expect that, which just reinforces the pattern. Insecure attachment rears its head in our adult relationships; we never trust what we feel. Listen to how this showed up in my life (over and over--you’re certainly not alone), then learn what you can do RIGHT NOW to honor your feelings and break the cycle. I even have a download to reference: Six Steps to Owning Your Feelings. Download here: http://bit.ly/1sK5phq Genre self-help