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Marissa Stapley

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Marissa Stapley is the NYT bestselling author of the novels Lucky (a Reese's Book Club pick), The Last Resort, Things to Do When It's Raining, and Mating for life. Her fiction has been published around the world and her journalism has appeared in magazines and newspapers across North America. She has taught creative writing and editing at the University of Toronto and Centennial College, and lives in Toronto with her family. ...more

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What’s your advice for aspiring writers?

Marissa Stapley If you want to be a writer, you must read widely -- not just the type of fiction you want to write, but all types of fiction. In particular, you shoul…moreIf you want to be a writer, you must read widely -- not just the type of fiction you want to write, but all types of fiction. In particular, you should read great fiction that can teach you, in the most interesting way possible, how to construct perfect sentences and spin a perfectly paced story. I say "in the most interesting way possible" because the craft of writing is often taught in classrooms and workshops, and that's fine. In fact, I teach and mentor students and we both get a lot out of it. But the best way to learn about good writing is by reading good writing. And the best part about that is that it doesn't feel like work or school--it feels like pure pleasure, because it's reading! My favourite authors to read when I'm writing and want to be inspired to write great sentences and exceptional stories are Lauren Groff, Alice Munro, Meg Wolitzer, and Julia Glass.

If you want to be a writer you must also attempt to silence the voice in your head telling you can't do it. The first moments of writing are always the most self-conscious, and that's when the critical voice sees its opportunity to try to take over. Keep at it, until the voice gets tired of criticizing you and goes silent. Resist the urge to go back and read what you've written halfway through your writing session. Just write! That's the best writing advice I've ever received. (less)

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How do you deal with writer’s block?

Marissa Stapley I used to believe there was no such thing as writer's block, that the secret to dealing with it was just continuing the process of sitting down -- as …moreI used to believe there was no such thing as writer's block, that the secret to dealing with it was just continuing the process of sitting down -- as Stephen King instructs in his excellent book On Writing -- at the same time, in the same place, every day, and just keeping on until the muse returns.

But this past fall I experienced true writers block. I couldn't think of a new book idea to save my life. I felt tired and listless all the time. There was just no way I could sit down in front of my computer (or a notebook, or the dictation app on my phone) and fail every day. So, I stopped trying. I let myself rest. I went for walks, I read, I organized closets and sold a bunch of stuff on Kijiji. I made tea and took naps and tried not to worry about how I was going to continue paying my bills. And the next thing I knew (just kidding MONTHS later, when I thought I was going to go insane), I suddenly couldn't stop the ideas from coming.

Now I have two books I'm working on, plus a television show idea. During my time of writer's block -- which seems a distant memory, now -- a good author friend told me that every writer needs to allow herself to go into a fallow state after a big project. It feels desolate and hopeless at the time, but what's really happening is new seeds are being planted. So my answer is, I deal with writer's block by submitting to it and knowing it's not going to last forever! (less)

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	Lucky 3.60 avg rating — 61,347 ratings — published 2021 — 23 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Three Holidays and a Wedding by Uzma Jalaluddin (Goodreads Author), Marissa Stapley (Goodreads Author) 3.60 avg rating — 9,534 ratings — published 2023 — 9 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	The Last Resort 3.30 avg rating — 5,037 ratings — published 2019 — 20 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Things to Do When It's Raining 3.42 avg rating — 1,403 ratings — published 2018 — 25 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Mating for Life 3.74 avg rating — 621 ratings — published 2014	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Legacy: An Anthology by Regina Calcaterra (Goodreads Author), Adria J. Cimino (Goodreads Author), Kristopher Jansma (Goodreads Author) 4.14 avg rating — 35 ratings — published 2015 — 4 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	What Happens Now? (Telegrams from Home, Vol. 3) by Jesse Thisle, Marissa Stapley (Goodreads Author), Michael Redhill 3.35 avg rating — 17 ratings — published 2020	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	The Lightning Bottles 4.75 avg rating — 4 ratings — published 2024 — 8 editions	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars
	Drei Feiertage und eine Hochzeit: Wenn Weihnachten, Chanukka und das Zuckerfest auf dasselbe Datum fallen by Uzma Jalaluddin (Goodreads Author), Marissa Stapley (Goodreads Author), Irmengard Gabler (translator) 0.00 avg rating — 0 ratings	Error rating book. Refresh and try again. Rate this book Clear rating 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars

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A Honeybee Heart Has Five Openings

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“No problem. People deserve second chances. And third chances. All people do is make mistakes. If we never forgave, we’d all be alone.”
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“The lottery is the greatest con of all time, kiddo. Proves our government is just like us, tricking people into thinking any dream can come true.”
― Marissa Stapley, Lucky

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“The world’s like that. What matters in one moment, it doesn’t matter the next. Things that fall apart eventually come back together again. Everything passes. You can be sure of that.”
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“Personally, I believe “Young Adult” to be an arbitrary title that means the book "Can be enjoyed by anyone/Has a main character who’s not quite an adult/Isn’t really boring.”
― Shannon Hale

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“In rivers, the water that you touch is the last of what has passed and the first of that which comes; so with present time.”
― Leonardo da Vinci

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“A word after a word after a word is power.”
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