Chuck Alfini, brother--

This is the hardest thing to express how much she meant to me.

One thing I can report is that she was universally loved by all that knew her. Her laughter and smile were contagious. She brightened the lives of all when she entered the room. It is impossible to replace her and all of us who knew her so well will always be reminded of her when we least expect it. I hope you will handle this loss of her spirit well.  

Chuck, Linda and Karyn

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Jim Alfini, brother--

My sister Betty was the most important person to me during my childhood. She went out of her way to make me feel good about myself, and did the same with my brother Chuck. She referred to Chuck as her twin even though they were twelve years apart. They also formed a pea-haters club, from which I was excluded because I liked peas. Betty had a unique ability to empathize and make you feel that you were cared for. She often said positive things about Chuck and me in front of our parents, hoping they would get the hint. Betty carried these wonderful character traits over into her adulthood. She had terrific listening skills and analytic abilities that drew you into long conversations with her. She was a loving, caring person whose presence on earth will be missed by all who knew her. 

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Jon Alfini, nephew--

Aunt Betty,

It’s so hard to describe how much you meant to me and everyone else who was lucky to know you. Your smile, laughter and sense of humor brightened up any room you walked into. You are one the most passionate, intelligent and caring people I know. You helped me get through the most difficult time in my life. Ever since then you seemed to know the perfect time to reach out to me. We may not have lived close to one another but you became one of the closest people in my life and I could never thank you enough. I will miss so very much. 😕❤️🌷RI 

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Judy Gaeta, cousin--

So many people loved her and will miss her, me especially.

Betty made an early impact on my life. We were cousins who were 10 years apart in age. When I was in 6th grade I remember her sending my family a letter from Zanzibar where she was doing teaching work with Neal. I brought the letter into school with me and Zanzibar was the topic for the week, my teacher was very impressed that my cousins were doing such great work in Africa. Through the years Betty always made it known to all of us how important other lives, living conditions and growth were to people not as fortunate as us. She stood her ground when she thought someone or group was right and needed her support. She is one of the most caring, loving persons I've known in my life. At every reunion she always found time to sit with each family member and find out what was new in their lives and would discuss it amongst all of us, making each of us feel important. I'm going to miss her at the next reunion, she was our ray of sunshine. Knowing that you're in a better place dear cousin, we'll meet again.. Love your cousin Judy.

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Gloria Kulynych, cousin—

May God look over you and comfort you at this most difficult time. Thinking of you with sympathy and wishing you peace—now and through the days to come. Love you. With our deepest sympathy, Gloria and Tony

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Rose Alfini, cousin--

My deepest condolences. My cousin Betty always made everyone feel welcomed and loved, she was not only a great teacher but a wonderful listener. She will be missed by so many people! ❤️❤️

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Fred Spitzer, cousin and Lucille and family—

We were so sorry to hear the sad news about the passing of Betty. She was a wonderful, fun-loving person. She was the one who would tell all the stories about the family at the reunions and get-togethers. She will be missed terribly. Our love and prayers go out during this very difficult time. With love…

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Don Resnikoff, brother-in-law to Betty--

As Neal’s brother, I am in a good position to focus on Betty as a wonderful and caring addition to our family.

Most important, Betty was a wonderful and caring friend of Neal’s for more than 60 years. 

A few weeks before Betty’s death Neal wrote a note to my son Paul and his fiancée Liz that described Neal’s marriage to Betty.  Neal expressed the wish that Paul and Liz’s  relationship be as close and caring  and durable as his has been with Betty.   Neal said that working on shared goals and purposes has been important in his relationship with Betty, and recommended that idea to Paul and Liz.

There is little doubt that shared sense of social and political mission was at the core of Neal and Betty’s close relationship.  In the early 1950s Neal and Betty met as students at NYU.  He was young and handsome, a brainy scholarship student, and she was young and beautiful and also a brainy scholarship student.   Her family was poor Italian/Russian-American from Yonkers, NY, and his family was poor Jewish from New Jersey.  They both had a strong sense of social injustice, and wanted political reform.   They bonded and fell in love based on similarities of upbringing, personality, and goals.  And, as they say, the rest is history.

Betty was a kind and close friend with others in my family.  I recently looked at old photos of a visit from Neal and Betty when my wife and I were camping at a Rhode Island Beach in the early 70s.  We all had fun together  -- I particularly like the photo of Betty on the beach, leaping into the air with her arms raised.  That was just one of many visits where Betty was warm and supportive to my kids and spouse. 

Betty was also very kind to my parents.  When Neal found a nursing home placement for our mother Pauline in Chicago, Betty chipped in and supported Neal in caring for our Mom.  Betty called our mother Mom, reflecting the distance their relationship had developed since the 1950s, when my mother and Betty’s mother agreed that a Jewish/Italian-Russian ancestry marriage would not work out.

A vignette from the past is from Neal and Betty’s wedding at a reception hall in Yonkers, some 60 years ago, where second generation Italian, Russian, and Jewish immigrants raised in ethnic enclaves met and talked, sometimes about the merits of intercultural marriage.  My younger brother Roy and I supplied the musical entertainment as a wedding gift, and found that older family guests at the wedding were challenging --not as appreciative as we hoped.  I particularly remember an older relative of Betty’s complaining about our poor performance of an Italian tarantella he had requested.  But at the end Neal and Betty were smiling, and married, and they were ready and happy to go on together to challenge the injustices they saw in the world.      

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Betsy Carrier, wife of Neal’s brother Don--

When I think about Betty the one word that comes to mind is passionate. Betty was passionate about social justice, passionate about family, passionate about learning and sharing, and passionate about art.  Betty was passionate about advocating for and improving the dignity and rights for all people. I was fortunate to be Betty's sister-in-law.  Betty was helpful to and concerned about all family members. More than anything she adored you as a partner and friend for 60 years. Betty was a teacher and lifelong learner.  Betty was always reading, sharing her knowledge, debating and helping people better understand various positions on topics ranging from politics to literature.   Betty was an artist--she was passionate about appreciating how various art forms could be used to express beauty or an idea.

I will miss Betty and the passion and vitality she brought to our family and the world around us. My thoughts and love are with you at this sad time.

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Alan Resnikoff, Betty’s nephew-in-law—

I am so sorry to hear that terrible news.  I have fond memories of you and Betty sitting on my dad’s porch enjoying coffee and having long chats.  She was always very kind to me.  Please accept my deepest condolences.

Betty was a loving aunt and an equal partner to my Uncle Neal.  I recall her and Neal visiting my father’s Pearl Street house in San Diego and enjoying long talks on the front deck.  While many relatives might have been satisfied with pleasantries and platitudes, Betty would always ask thought provoking questions (and perhaps share a few thought provoking opinions!).  While some of these family discussions could become heated, they always challenged how I thought about the world and the society we live in, and were based on a foundation of a genuine desire to make the world a better, and more just, place.  We will all miss Betty, not only because of her ardent and genuine passion to advocate for what she believed in, but also because she was a loving member of our family.

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Dave Resnikoff, nephew, Alan’s brother—

I’m so sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. I can imagine her enjoying music, art, and culture in the other life…and also organizing and educating residents of heaven on civil rights and equality. I will always have fond memories of rich conversations with her and also you.

Picture of flowers from daughter Molly, and a sorry to hear from son Owen.

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Paul Resnikoff, Betty’s nephew-in-law—

Betty will be missed dearly, though we have lots and lots of wonderful memories in the rearview.  For me, I've got lots of laughs and fun times to be happy for, Betty really put a smile on my face every time.  Betty really could fill up a room with her buoyant energy, always beaming and smiling.

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 Sarah LaSpina, niece-in-law—

Lucy made a painting in memory of Betty that I would like to share with you. Even though Lucy spent limited time with Betty, she felt a connection to her. She loved the box of treasures that Betty sent her last year. I was always impressed that Betty intuitively knew that Lucy would like this unusual gift.

I will miss Betty very much. She was such a wonderful person—smart, compassionate, and funny. As a kid, I remember going to visit you and Betty. You guys would perform puppet shows and make Paul and me laugh so much. I am also happy that I was able to recently see Betty in Chicago and share stories.

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Brae Canlan, leader of the caretaker team for brother-in-law Roy, in San Diego—

My deepest sympathies for the passing of your wife Betty. I have seen first-hand how close the Resnikoff family is, and I hope this brings you solace and comfort in the days to come.

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Sandi Ross, close friend--

Remembrances of Betty:

Her sense of humor was infectious...She could find the humor in situations where most people could find none...And usually those situations involved her! I loved to hear her laugh.

Her devotion to a cause was second to none...She would never give up no matter what the consequences were.

She was fearless...She marched; she protested injustice; she spoke at rallies; she defended the down trodden; she vilified those who would take advantage of others, no matter how rich or powerful they might be.

She educated others...She presented facts and opinions that might not have been in the mainstream, with insightful background, anecdotes...and, of course, humor.

She was a really good cook... I still use recipe ideas and spices that she introduced me to (like curry, yes curry) when I cook and bake.

She was faithful...To her husband, to her family, to her friends.

She was loving and caring...Whenever we spoke she always asked about the family. She wanted to know specifics about all the kids and grandkids. I think she did a better job of keeping track of all of them than I did at times!  (And we always considered her and Neal a part of our extended family.)

I knew Betty for over 48 years. We met when my husband, Mike and I lived in New Jersey and I was pregnant with my daughter Maria. Of course, we met and came together over politics! I still have the card that she sent us when Maria was born. When we left Jersey for Boston we stayed in touch, but did not see each other again for a few years. Then, as luck, or good fortune would have it, she and Neal moved to Chicago not long after we did. She and Neal stayed with us in Oak Park until they found an apartment there. It was during that time that the two of them adopted a stray cat...which happened to be pregnant! By then I had four children and the youngest, Sean, was feeling left out because all of his older siblings had their own pets. Back to Momma Cat...Sean became the recipient of one of the kittens from the litter. (We had Kit for 21 years.) Betty, along with Neal, joined our family gatherings around holidays from the time they settled in the area to this day. All our grandkids just expect them to be there whenever the family gathers.

I am so glad that I was able to see Betty one last time in December. We Celebrated on the 29th at the care facility where she was recuperating at the time. She was her usual jovial self. I knew her health was declining when I spoke with her for the last time a few weeks ago, but we were optimistic that things would turn around soon. Unfortunately, the virus intervened.

I will miss Betty more than I can express.

She was all the aforementioned things, but most of all, she was my dear friend and I loved her very much. 

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Catherine McLaughlin, friend, Boston—

Of course we all know that words will not suffice.No matter her health, it was too early as she had so much more to give. A totally tireless fighter for workers, artists and intellectuals in this country and all around the world for peace and against imperialism.

 A genuine heroine of the people has left us too soon

 Dear people,

Betty Resnikoff was small in stature but huge in ability. She was a tremendous listener as well as astute yet accessible speaker. She had a vast knowledge of all kinds of history; working class, scientific theories, literary, artistic and philosophical ideas.

She could also whip up drawings and caricatures that would be beyond most folks’ abilities.

And when it came to struggles for justice, she was eloquent but forceful with an uncanny ability to get to the source of the problem and always elevate the common person. She did not waste time nor mince words as to who or what was the cause for problems but did not engage in empty sloganeering. True deep understanding she knew would be the only way to actually organize to fight  and overcome problems.

Betty and I were in many demos for peace and against Imperialist war in Boston as well as NYC and Washington DC.  We worked together with the Boston School Committee for more equitable education. We went to several New England cities to fight the presence of the KKK. We supported the PATCO members for safer flying conditions, AFSCME workers to get their paychecks, celebrated and shared a broader and deeper African American  and Indigenous history with all as well as the history and significance of May Day and International Women’s Day especially on the campus of University of Massachusetts-Boston, where we started the Freedom School.

She was a true teacher in every sense of the word and inspired so many working class students at Boston University and later on, UMB and Bunker Hill Community College before moving onto the Chicago area. It didn't really matter where she was, as she made a lasting positive effect wherever she went to inspire all to never give up the good fight, to always struggle for peace and justice.

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Steve Livingston, with Albany Park, North Park, Mayfair Neighbors for Peace and Justice for some 18 or 19 years, and with Chicago Anti-War Coalition—

As I picture Betty now, I see her seated by the lamp post by the ‘L’ station at the corner of Lawrence and Kimball Avenues at mid-day Saturday.  She’s there with us regardless whether it’s a blistering hot day or sunless, chill and windy.  She’d pose to people waiting for the stop light to change a demand or a question related to Albany Park Neighbors for Peace & Justice newsletter.  “What do you think?” she’d then ask.  This was her way of engaging them in a discussion, and she was good at this because she had a keen sense of where people were coming from.

She often rescued my own sense of credibility in political discussions noting, “As Steve said…” just when I was thinking my point of view had gotten lost in the labyrinth of other peoples’ ideas.

In the last months of her life, most of them spent between hospital and rehab facility, we didn’t get to see or hear from her much.  However, one Sunday evening a couple of months ago, my wife Sandy and I and Edith Asidao were able to visit with Betty and Neal.  She was able to master her pain, and everyone, for that evening at least, had a thoroughly enjoyable time.  I will miss her.  A lot.

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Bob Schwartz, Chicago activist—

Betty never stopped being the class struggle warrior that she was.  Her remarks were always centered on the fight to make the world a just and peaceful place in which to live.

She will be missed.

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Joyce Good, Chicago activist—

I just heard that Betty was a victim of COVID-19.

I am dizzy with the unreality of this and my sorrow for the loss of a woman whose whole life was a fight for the people.

My sadness, which I know is joined by the many who knew Betty, is extended to you- to meet your sadness. Betty lived bravely and brazenly and lifted her fist to the controllers fighting the people. We will continue her legacy of fight, organize, smile, laugh, love your neighbors and fellow strugglers and understand the political world.

What I best remember about Betty is her smile and laugh. She brought with her a lightness and a love of people in her political work. It was refreshing and endearing and it felt more like fun.

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David Ciba, Chicago activist--

I just heard about the tragic passing of Betty. I met her just a few times but did have some wonderful conversations with her. I wanted to wish you my condolences. Sorry for the loss. 

I was told Betty passed away from COVID-19. A close childhood friend caught it at while working as a nurse at a hospital in West Garfield Park. The hospital supplied her with a mask 3 days before being tested positive for it last week. Prior to that she worked 2 months without a mask in an understaffed and underfunded hospital. Now she has major issues breathing while going thru other physical issues.

When I first began going out with Ivy, she raved about you and Betty. “They are extremely radical and you will love them,” she said. Ivy was correct. Betty was awesome and I truly did enjoy talking with her the few times I met her.

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Betsie Weil, member of Chicago Anti-War Coalition--

I would like to say that I have been constantly amazed at the dedication that  Betty  had (for how many years?) to the anti-war project. As difficult as it has been at times she never gave up in disgust or frustration. Betty was always well-prepared, and I know that she helped  write many of drafts of our leaflets. At our gatherings Betty always exhibited a great deal of patience and calm when situations got rough. It didn't seem to flag her. Her wonderful sense of humor, I'm certain, added to her composure.

Stephen (Weil) adds that, in spite of her limitations, that Betty had tremendous initiative, as well as faith in the possibilities for understanding and action from her students (of all ages), along with the many other people who she influenced.

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Timi Papas, Evanston activist--

How Betty will be missed!  That cheery, indefatigable lady!  She's been an inspiration to all of us who share values and hopes for the future.  I'm so sorry for this loss.  If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

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Joe Lombardo, United National Anti-War Coalition--

 I am so sorry.  I did not know her well but this news really hits me hard. 

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Dr. Anne Sheetz, Single Payer activist--

I am so deeply sorry. I will miss Betty so much although I saw her only occasionally.  

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Stansfield Smith, Chicago activist—

Betty was a pleasant and friendly person in what was something of a contentious male-dominated political milieu. She was part of the Neal and Betty team, which has consistently advocated and consistently practiced anti-imperialist politics. I have known them for close to twenty years, after 9-11, when both a Chicago anti-war coalition and a network to free the five imprisoned Cuban anti-terrorists were formed. Many have come and gone, staying in the movement for short periods of time, but Neal and Betty had made anti-imperialism and defense of workers struggles a life long calling, to be practiced every week. Very few can sustain that level of work. We can only look up to the model they represent.

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Dale Lehman, Evanston activist—

I just heard that Betty passed away, victim of the CORONA-19 virus.

I'm so sorry. Please accept my condolences.

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Hooshi Daragahi—Chicago activist—

It was a great sadness to hear the passing away of Betty, an indefatigable fighter for the noble cause of peace, justice and Human Dignity. Please accept my sincere condolences. 

She will remain in the memory of all of us who had the fortune to know her as an example of resistance to the onslaught of imperialist brutality and war.  

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Andrea Gawrit, neighbor—

Our heart’s are broken!  We are so sorry! And so very very sad!!! We are all just devastated! This was not an outcome we were prepared for.

Peace to Betty!❤️Forever in our hearts!

With Love, 

Andrea and Nick and Natasha, Yahn, Tatiana and Sophia.

Added May 7--

Betty!!

It’s incredibly hard to write about Betty, when in all the time we have known Betty..... It’s been Betty and Neal........ the hard part is to come to terms with all this in loss.... and separate the incredible unity that these two people had and have!  The wonderful stories of their life together, there have been so many..... And there is no separation, just the fact that life continues differently!

Betty came into our lives when Neal and Betty purchased the property next door to us! We couldn’t have been happier!  So friendly and the beautiful things that started happening and continued on, resonate!

They were there when we brought each one of our four children home!  They watched our children grow up from birth into young adults, we have four, 24, 23, 21 and 19!  Betty felt that she witnessed so much more than their Grandparents in Australia did and she was so right!!!!!

At first they had Mama cat that Neal would occasionally pick up to show our German Shepherd pup......that didn’t go so well, so our 4’ fence became 6’ out of fear that our dog may jump and all bets were off, and an explanation that this was not a barrier for our human interaction...... our conversations never stopped from our deck to their yard!  We had the best.....

We all know how much Betty and Neal loved to travel and travel they did..... and the stories they told!! A wealth of information and suggestions when ever we were traveling!

Betty often did puppet shows over our fence for the kids, unannounced and full on!  They loved it! She thought about us in so many things she did!  Her love of music, Jazz in particular, we shared a few live Jazz shows together, such fun!  My oldest daughter, Natasha went on to study Jazz in High school and she was so proud to be asked to sing at Betty and Neal’s 50th wedding anniversary!  It was such an honor to perform at such a milestone!  Wow!  The love! ❤️

Betty had such a love for plants and wildlife, and art!  Her rear garden exudes all this!  Watching and hearing Betty sitting and entertaining her friends over the years in this oasis was beautiful!  I will miss her pottering around and giving Neal directions!😉 She would send boxes of rocks over, knowing how some our children loved to collect them. She was an educator, sending books to read and creative, sending wire to make models of insects and birds!  Always thoughtful!

Betty was such an incredibly smart, empowered woman that subtly bestowed her wealth of information and values upon us! We didn’t always have to agree, but that is what true friendship is about!  We’d listen, we’d converse! We loved her! We will miss her!  Rest In Peace Betty!

Love to you Neal!  The conversation will keep on!  Keep swimming! x

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Mayra Vaca, neighbor—

It breaks my heart to hear this! She was such a wonderful person. I’m am so sorry.  We are here for you for anything you need. 

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Laurie McLaughlin, Canada, friend from Boston—

I am so, so sorry. How wonderful she was. 

So many "I wish" things I had done, written, communicated while she was still here. 

Betty made a difference in this world, for the better. Her analysis, artistic eye, and her way of connecting to people were all outstanding.  The world was richer for her presence, and is now poorer. But, she has helped so many to see clearer, as well as having helped  countless learners to realize more of their potential because of her talent at getting people (of all ages and backgrounds!) to better understand how to really, truly read and write/communicate.

She was a force for good and helped so many to be able to see the world and its history much clearer, and to take concrete steps to

Make the Rich Pay! and to work towards Not a Penny more for Imperialist War!

And, the huge number of students who were helped by her empowering teaching is hard to tally: Boston University, University of Massachusetts-Boston, MB, Bunker Hill Community College, and there's probably other places as well!

She is sorely missed.

Betty Resnikoff, Presente

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Roger Fraser, activist in the Chicago area—

I just heard that Betty died from the virus. She was as eloquent and committed a campaigner for the right as anyone I know.

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Andy Thayer, Chicago activist—

I know that we've had our differences about various organizing matters, but I don't think anyone ever questioned Betty's commitment to building a better world.

I second the call to keep up the struggle, despite our current difficulties in organizing when we're on lock down.

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Jay Becker, Chicago activist—

Whatever our differences, Betty acted together with everyone who stood up against US imperialism and that is a spirit that is far too rare these days. That is an expression of love for the people of the world.

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Joe Iosbaker, Chicago activist—

I'm terribly sorry to hear this. Betty was a militant - no better word describes her. I remember when we first met at the student protest against the CIA recruiter at Northwestern University in 1987. The College Republicans were physically intimidating us on the picket line, and Betty put her shoulder into the mid-section of one of the frat boys, sending him tumbling out of the line.

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Tina Stevenson, Evanston activist—

I was so sorry to hear about Betty’s passing.  Betty will be missed by so many friends and activists. We are losing such a great voice.

Betty will always be in my thoughts.

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Alejandro Moreno, immigrant rights activist in Chicago—

So sorry. Very very sad. 

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Janet Nolan, member Albany Park, North Park, Mayfair Neighbors for Peace and Justice—

Betty's life is a gift to those who knew her, even as her gifts spread to many, many other human beings with whom she came in contact.

I met Betty, the founding member with Neal her husband, of the Albany Park, North Park, Mayfair Neighbors for Peace and Justice.  I came to know  Betty as she drew me and others to join with  her in the struggle for peace in our world, starting in our own neighborhood.

I did not know Betty during her earlier years as a child of second generation immigrants, through college and many other roles  as an energetic college professor and an advocate for the powerless and disadvantaged. 

What I witnessed was Betty, a gentle, wise fighter who influenced others by her persuasive speech, her kindness,in the midst of disagreement and her clear vision and will, fighting for justice and peace.

A thousand thank you's, Betty!

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Adela Greely, a friend of Janet (above) from California who attended an Albany Park N4P&J meeting on defense of the undocumented while visiting in Chicago—

 My heartfelt sympathy. You and she have made our world a better place and her spirit lives on in all the good in the universe. With love and hope…

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Tom Terrell, pastor, Christ Lutheran Church and member of Albany Park Defense Network (APDN)--

I am so saddened to hear about Betty. I always appreciated her passion and focus for creating a just and peaceful world. She was a blessing to me and all of us, whenever she was able to attend our APDN's meetings. Chicago has lost a champion of worthy causes, and we all have lost a sister in the struggle. May God give you peace and comfort as you grieve your beloved Betty. I know her work touched a lot of lives.

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Antonio Gutierrez, Anti-Displacement Organizer with Autonomous Tenants Union, and with Organized Communities Against Deportations and the Albany Park Defense Network--

It is very unfortunate that Betty is no longer physically with us - she was always a joy to have at meetings and rallies. She was an example of resilience and what solidarity looks like. Sending a big hug to you and those that been lucky enough to have met Betty.

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Scott Jaburek, activist with Albany Park Defense Network and the Autonomous Tenants Union—

 Betty was truly an incredible woman who will be missed.

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Peter Gunther, Chicago activist—

Words fail so mightily at such times to express strong feelings. Betty will be missed daily and eternally.

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Paul Tyler, active with Albany Park Defense Network and Christ Lutheran Church—

What a horrible loss for all of us.

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Xanat Sobrevilla, Organized Communities Against Deportations, APDN—

 I am sorry to hear Betty is no longer with us.  I will cherish the memories of her in our meetings and our rallies.  I remember her with us outside of ICE headquarters in the cold in solidarity.

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Jake Marshall, Albany Park Defense Network—

I always looked forward to seeing Betty at APDN events. Those early APDN meetings were some of my first experiences with organizing and I appreciated Betty's commitment and passion. I'm so glad I got to know her for these last few years.

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Ruby Castillo, Albany Park resident—

Neal, I am truly sorry to hear about Betty's passing. I am grateful to have met you and your wife during my time participating with the Albany Park Library Committee and when helping translate your Group Newsletter in Spanish. I always admired you and Betty's dedication towards social justice and your commitment to informing the public of things that are going on in our world.

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Anne Krantz--

I am so sorry to learn this, Neal. My condolences to you.

I did not know Betty well, but I admired and respected her unwavering commitment to fighting for justice.

Though sad news for May Day, Betty’s memory, like this day itself, inspires us to continue the struggle.

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Andrew Chebuhar, Chicago—

Betty was always very nice and she was sharp in her

politics in stopping U.S. wars.  She was clear that other countries

deserve self-determination not U.S. sanctions and wars.  She was

clear that our government spends money on wars abroad while

making people pay too much for health care here at home.

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Jim Vail, Second City Teacher blog—

Betty Resnikoff was one of Chicago's most beloved anti-war and social justice activists. She and her husband Neal Resnikoff founded The Albany Park Neighbors for Peace and Justice where activists gather each Saturday at noon at the corner of Lawrence and Kimball to protest US government wars. They then gather across the street for enlightening political discussions. Betty died suddenly and unexpectedly at age 83 from the corona virus while she was having leg problems. This moving story about her life of activism is a story of hope at a time of darkness.

We loved Betty so much. I always looked forward to hearing her sharp analysis of world events, labor issues, and history told with a sweetness that was very positive on how to change the world. We need a lot more Bettys in the world! Long Live her memory!

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Todd Allen, Chicago—

You and Betty have done so much for so many sharing your passion and wisdom for peace and community and I'll be forever thankful for the belief in a better world that you have inspired..

Both Sara and I have had a bit of an odd lingering cold for weeks and have been isolating at home.  I expect we will soon be better and look forward to when I'll be able to go out again and join you in discussion, actions and laps at the swimming pool.

My heart aches for our loss.

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Arlene Hickory--

I know you will greatly miss Betty.  I will miss her....I realized how I drew strength from her.  As I was (am) going through my own physical issues, I would reflect on the meetings,  the protests, even the e-mails in which She kept moving, active, strong in voice.  I am thankful for that gift.  I will treat that gift with care....

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Kathy Cummings, Chicago activist—

I am so sorry, sorry for you, and for me and the rest of us.

Betty was always such a "dear," a Love, always projecting her positivity.

Betty, Toran and I all being Tauruses meant something to special me.  I learned of Betty’s appreciation and concern about native plants, pollinators and other parts of Nature.  One year, I had asked Betty what she and Neal were doing for her birthday, May 18.  She replied Neal was taking her dancing!  I could see she was excited so the next time I saw her I asked if they had gone dancing.  She said yes, they had gone dancing and with a wink of one eye, said Neal had held her up!

Betty, in addition to being intelligent, well-spoken, kind, gentle, and so positive, was a romantic.   She loved to laugh.  Each time I think of her, I think of her smiling.

Bless Betty Resnikoff!  Bravo for your positively, important life!

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Edith Asidao, Albany Park, North Park, Mayfair Neighbors for Peace and Justice—

It saddens me and all of us that Betty is no longer with us. It is with a heavy heart that I am writing this about a very true and dear friend of mine, Betty.

She is a great spirit as she is kind, genuine, dedicated, honest, and really cares about humanity and the future of the world. She is truly a humanitarian and always speaks of Truth, Justice, Peace, and Equality.

Betty is also very humorous and she will make you laugh to lighten things up. She truly cares about people and makes use of her expertise as a great teacher and educator. She will talk to people as she passes around leaflets at numerous demonstrations and distribution of learning materials and explain to them patiently and joyfully the necessity of carrying out what matters most in our lives and the world. Yes, we will remember Betty in our hearts for all her kindness and her generous contribution to society and the world in general.

Betty loves food, the garden, and so with the arts and music.

Betty always wears a button saying No More Wars.

Her intelligence, sensitivity, and dedication is quite striking! Betty is a gift to all of us as she is bigger than life itself! I believe she is with God now and trust she is under His care! So long my dear friend.

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Diane Pontius—

I work for an assisted living facility with two dementia units.  Fortunately, our building has not had an occurrence and I pray we don't.  We are in lockdown with no visitors and the residents must eat all their meals in their apartments which they hate. The masks suck big time.

 I know this time has been very hard on you by not being able to comfort Betty in person as she "lost her footing." My cousin died alone too. Her sister asked the nurses to read a prayer to her before they took her off the ventilator.  She had many underlying conditions. Vicky was buried with no service now but there will be one in the future. This part of it is so hard for many, many people. May they rest in peace. Shalom.

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Rosalie G. Riegle, long-time Evanston anti-war activist—

Neal, Your tribute to Betty was beautiful!  What a fighter!  I'm so sorry you couldn't hold her at the end.  Take care of yourself, please!

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Kathryn Pensack, long-time political friend in Chicago—

 I have so many memories of Betty. Foremost is her fierce refusal to accept injustice. Second is her smile and open embrace of every person who came her way, reaching out, teaching, caring deeply and working for those she would never meet as well.

 I often remember the time we spent an entire day together in her home. She was limited by knee surgery and we planned to share an early lunch which spread into the evening. She was a natural teacher and our conversations ranged from the personal, to the political,religious,and even artistic. She made me feel super charged, glowing, awake. She was a dedicated political activist but so very much more. She spoke with full honesty but was never crass. She loved people immediately but suffered no foolishness. She loved the arts and good craft but cared little for possessions. She was funny and often surprising. Such an amazing woman and still humble. Status meant less than nothing to her.

 Several years ago we were pressing the Chicago Public Building Commision to finally start putting solar panels on public projects. In their Board Meeting Betty stood up and announced firmly and in a clear voice that she had been a teacher for several years, that she had looked at their reluctance to use solar power and that she was giving them all a grade of F.

 I loved you Betty. So many of us did.

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Libby Frank, Chicago anti-war and especially anti-military recruiting activist--

 We were so sad to hear of Betty’s passing. I always looked forward to seeing her at every demo. She possessed a unique combination of revolutionary grit and human compassion. She cared about people as people; as human beings. She welcomed stories about kids, grandkids. At the same time her politics were revolutionary and clear. Sometimes I fear many of us on the left are too much about business and neglect the people side. Not Betty.

She will be missed.

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Norma Jenckes-- long-time political and personal friend from Rhode Island--

Betty was a huge part of my development and I missed her when I did not see her  for some time.  

Betty played a big role in my relationship with Yashdip.  She told me that he liked me. I recall how I answered her in disbelief  "How can you tell? He is so aloof and silent."  She explained the world to me and the shy behavior of Indian men raised in a culture that arranged marriages.

I hope that she did not suffer too much before her death.  This is such a terrible time

 If I can trust my memory, I think that the last time we visited was when you came to my summer house in RI.  SO much has happened since then.

I remember so many times with Betty from our first meeting at the demonstration at the State House in 1969.  Betty was a model of what a progressive person could be.

Please accept my condolences and  let me know ways that Yashdip and I could help at this time.

Love and Sympathy, Norma and Yashdip

Added May 4, from a blog Norma writes—

 SHE WAS A WOMAN FOR ALL SEASONS.

Yesterday I received the sad news of the death of a wonderful woman and beloved friend, Betty Resnikoff.

I met Betty when in the summer of 1969, I attended a rally at the Rhode Island State House to support the Grape Workers Boycott led by Cesar Chavez. In writing this entry I just looked up the Grape Strike on Wikipedia and found that it was made up of Filipino workers and began on May 3, 1965.  And here am I on May 3, 2020 recalling it and testifying to how it influenced my life and activities.

How did I become aware of the Strike?

Well I had just moved into an apartment on Butler Avenue across the street from what was then an Almacs store and is now a Whole Foods store.  When picket lines began to form, I became curious and went out to talk to some of those on the picket lines.  I was impressed with their dedication and I began to brew pots of coffee and bring them out in the long nights to give them  a lift. I also invited them to use my bathroom, since I knew they would not be near any public facilities in that neighborhood.

When they decided to have a State House demo, they urged me to come to it. And I did.

I went there with my 5 year old son,  and had brought some puzzles and books to amuse him. As we sat on a blanket other attendees with children had asked me if I would watch their kids while they participated  more actively in the demonstration. I agreed and in a short time I had collected around me a group of about ten kids who were listening to me read to them.

Suddenly there appeared a man who was distributing leaflets.  His words to me were funny

"Wow you have all these kids.  You really need to read this leaflet."

And he handed me a leaflet about Women's Lib. I laughed and said that only one child was mine.

That was my meeting with Neal.

He joined us and asked what I did.  I said that in September I would begin a job as an Instructor at  Rhode Island College.  He told me that his wife was also starting an instructorship there.  He was teaching at Providence College.  He volunteered to take over the child care and directed me to where his wife was and urged me to introduce myself to her.

I did just that.  And a few minutes later I was greeting a short  woman with a babushka on her head who was  talking to  a group of women about their liberation.  I introduced myself and that is how I met BETTY.

That was my lucky day.  

She and I became good friends and I was glad to have someone like her to guide me through my first college teaching job. I was ABD at the time after completing a Masters and all the course work for a PhD at the University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana.

Betty was the most progressive person I had met up to that time in my life.

I am always so glad to meet people who are more radical than I am. They make me feel less odd, and they reassure me by their very being that there is a wide spectrum of political belief and understanding. I no longer feel so far out and alone.

I found all of her ideas about the class struggle extremely interesting and convincing.

She helped me to see the connections between that struggle and the texts that we were paid to teach.  She helped me to see that particular texts  serve particular class interests and that we could raise those questions when  teaching the literary texts.

When I began my  job in September, I was glad to know  another  new but experienced instructor and I could consult her if I needed help or advice.

Betty introduced me to the world of  Women's Lib when we  drove together to Harvard to attend a conference there on the Struggle of Women.

 Betty noticed immediately that there was little or no attention to the struggles of working women who were also wives and mothers.  Since I was one of those women, I was very aware how much the experience of motherhood was absent from the discussion.

I can't really enumerate all the ways that Betty helped me and improved my life.  How can I count the ways?

She helped me on the personal level. She was the first person who told me that Yashdip, the handsome Indian Shakespeare scholar in the department,  liked me.  How do you know that? I asked Betty; he is so aloof and he never speaks.  Betty then told me that she had seen how he watched when I finished a class and went to the faculty coffee lounge; he went too.  I had noticed that he always seemed to be drinking coffee, but I never thought  he did that to be in my company.

Then Betty  explained some thing that she had seen in her years teaching in Zanzibar. She told me that Indian men have no experience of dating; their society arranges their marriages.  So they do not know how to approach a women they would like to know better.

I remember asking Betty what my response should be.

She suggested that I invite him to dinner at my place.  After a few more weeks of daily encounters in the coffee lounge which he had ramped up to offers to lend me books. He had noticed that I often had a book that I was reading with me when I got my coffee. I finally took Betty's sound advice and invited him to dinner.

Even about dinner, Betty had some advice.  Odds are, she explained to me, he is a vegetarian.  So make him a vegetable main course.  I decided on Eggplant Parmigan and she applauded that choice.

WE became very good friends in that year of teaching, and since Yashdip was also a progressive person, she became friends with him too.

When our year of being instructors was over, we parted.

I and my son Joey went to a summer in Ireland to do research on my dissertation topic. I think Neal and Betty moved on to Easton PA where they had new jobs. That was the summer of 1970, I came back to a changed scene.  I had received a new job at nearby Bryant College and my father had died suddenly the day before my return.

I realize as I try to sum up my experience of Betty that it resists summation.

Betty's great gift is that she saw the opportunity to improve every single moment, and she saw that in every one that she met.  She spoke in a direct, frank way to everyone, and she saw in all of us something that was shining.  

She saw the longing in every one for a better world, a just society and a freer life. I do not believe that constant reaching towards freedom ever left her.

She saw  the bright field of each landscape, each human life, every day and every where.

Welsh poet R.S. Thomas is considered one of the finest poets of the twentieth century captures that  shock of recognition in his poem--

 The Bright Field

 I have seen the sun break through

 to illuminate a small field

for a while, and gone my way

and forgotten it. But that was the pearl

of great price, the one field that had

the treasure in it. I realize now

that I must give all that I have

to possess it. Life is not hurrying

on to a receding future, nor hankering after

an imagined past. It is the turning

aside like Moses to the miracle

of the lit bush, to a brightness

that seemed as transitory as your youth

once, but is the eternity that awaits you.

   —R.S. Thomas

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Maria Conyers, one of the wonderful daughters in the Sandi Ross family, and who we have known since before she was born—

 It is hard for me to put into words how I felt about Betty.  I am not good at this but I am going to try.  

I don't remember a time that Betty and Neal were not a part of our lives.  From as young as I can remember we would see Betty and Neal at all kinds of political functions (rallies, protests, meetings) and social events usually around the holidays (where politics were also discussed).  As kids, we were always around people with passionate political convictions.  Betty and Neal were no exception except in how Betty presented herself.  

I have precious childhood memories of Betty telling stories of fighting the good fight while smiling and laughing.  That is the thing I will miss most about her.  Even when she was telling a story about a wrong committed, her voice was always calm and kind.  As a child and now as an adult, I would love to sit and listen to her tell stories about her and Neal's endeavors.  She had a knack for story telling.  I never could believe that this smiling, laughing, calm, and kind person would do the crazy things her and Neal did.  She was fearless and I was in awe of her.  

I am so grateful that Betty and Neal have remained a part of my life and my family's life.  My family only ever refers to them as Betty and Neal.  Not just Betty and not just Neal.  Always Betty and Neal.  This is a testament to their relationship. I don't know of two people more perfect for each other than Betty and Neal.  Your relationship has been an inspiration to me.

I loved Betty and will miss her very much.  I am grateful for all the years that she was a part of my life.  

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Juliana Conyers, daughter of Maria—

 At Thanksgiving a couple of years ago Betty gave me a desert plant. She thought that I would like to take care of it, and she told me how much water to give it and where to put it. The plant ended up growing and becoming very beautiful.  I felt honored that she entrusted me with taking care of the plant.  

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Mandy Ross, a second of the wonderful daughters in the Sandi Ross family, who has worked  with poor kids in Mexico and here in the U.S. as well as with some kids who are not so poor but need assistance--

 Benevolent-- Giving of her time and energy for the good of others

 Empowering-- Dedicated to helping everyone find their voice

 Tenacious--  ​Never afraid to speak truth to power

 Tough Marching--  protesting, getting arrested, come rain or shine

 Young-spirited--  A laugh and a smile and a zest for life that enriched us   all

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Tron Ross, one of the wonderful children in the Ross family—

I'm sorry for my delay here - I've been thinking about you since I heard the news and I've procrastinated, but have had you in my thoughts for the past week.  I'm so sorry to hear the news and hope you are finding strength through this time.  Upon reflection, I realized that I had known Betty for almost all of my life and, while we only saw the two of you sporadically over the recent years, it was always nice to see and speak with you and her.  I especially liked some of the stories she told about your time together in Madison years ago.  Betty was obviously very passionate about her political and social activities and made the world a much better place with her tireless devotion to the rights of the oppressed.  She made a difference in countless lives and she, as well as her life's work, will be remembered.   I was honored to have known her for decades.

With deepest sympathy,

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Gregg Hyppolite, long-time part of the Ross family--

Amy joins me in offering our most sincere condolences.  Forgive us we’re so late, but as you know, it’s a crazy time for me at IDES with half the state unemployed. We will miss Betty so much, it’s going to be really strange during family gatherings without her there.

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 Eldon Grossman, regular leafleter/participant with the Chicago Anti-War Coalition—

Early this afternoon (Sunday, 5.3) I read Neal’s obituary for Betty. I already knew she was a strong fighter for justice for all people, but reading the narrative describing incidents in her life and the many tributes to her by others who knew her were very inspiring. I know we all will miss her.

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Gene Horcher, who has traveled an hour each way every Saturday for some years to leaflet with Albany Park, North Park, Mayfair Neighbors for Justice and participate in political discussion afterwards--

Sorry about Betty's death. Betty was a strong leader for social justice and peace. I will miss her.

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Kathy Kelly, peace and justice activist who has been outstanding at leading actions locally, nationally and internationally—

I just learned of Betty's death. I'm sorry for your loss. Both of you wove love, courage, and wisdom into your life together.  Thank you for telling us more about Betty's beautiful life.

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Tina Hirsch, long-time friend in Chicago—

QUESTION FOR DISCUSSION:

Power to the People:

Would she have said any of this??

 The purpose of power

is love, with a vision for

the real needs of the whole --

past and future--

'individuals in society'.

 Only when we see,

understand, with

complexities, contradictions, conflictual demands by this system on each person in their role, their place in the power dynamic, can we respond in ways that can really be realistic and helpful.

 Ultimately, all of us

will need to deal

with all we've internalized

coming forward

from our 'source' culture.

 -How will we develop our understanding, humor, and compassion?

 -How can we cultivate something like her special talent for skillful communication, confidence, charm, and courage?

-How can we find a balance between 'Speaking Truth to Power' and maintaining our human connection?

 Just who will be

that "New Man/ Woman"?

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Greg Eck--

I'm terribly sorry about Betty. My heart goes out to you and your families and certainly the communities of friends and supporters in your many impassioned causes who will miss her strong and influential soul.

 I must also say that the remembrance you penned for your partner of 60(!) years was a beautiful tribute. Though I only met Betty a couple times, you presented her life with such color and affection that after reading it, I felt like she was a close and trusted confidante. A true loss.

 Stay strong, keep fighting, and may you emerge soon from your grief. We need you out there -- though I suppose "resisting" looks very different these days. Nonetheless...your work does not go unnoticed (or unappreciated)!

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Mike Ross, long-time political acquaintance—

 I was sorry and sad to hear about Betty. She was a stalwart in defense of the peoples' rights and interests, and she made numerous contributions to the struggles for justice and against exploitation.  We will miss her.

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Jennifer Bing, Palestinian Activism Program, American Friends Service Committee—

I’m sorry to hear about the unexpected death of Betty.

I can’t imagine how difficult it is to lose a loved partner, especially in this time of the COVID-19, when we aren’t able to be together to mourn and celebrate the life of devoted love and activism. That is what I think of when I picture you and Betty together – a constant presence for justice for so many causes in Chicago and beyond, often in the streets but also at events. As we aged over these few decades I’ve been in Chicago, I noticed the thoughtful way you helped Betty maneuver the spaces you would go together, in a way that expressed a devotion that many do not get to experience. She will be missed in the hard work that still lies ahead for us who seek a better planet, but I am grateful for the life she lived, advocating for rights of all who are oppressed.

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Dr. Howard Ehrman, Assistant Professor, University of Illinois College of Medicine--

I first met Betty in 2002 when she was on the UIC faculty in the English department and got arrested in the east side cafeteria for organizing against the upcoming war of the U.S. Imperialists against the Iraqi people.

I was a UIC faculty member in the College of Medicine and School of Public Health on the west side of campus a mile away, but immediately headed over to the east side to meet and support Betty.

A few months later several of us worked with Betty, who took the lead, in organizing a series of anti-war teach-ins on campus.

Of the many people who spoke at those teach-ins only Betty and myself drew the comparison of US imperialism and the fact that with the Patriot Act the neoliberal stage of capitalism had moved full speed ahead into fascism.

From the first time we talked I was so impressed with how clearly she spoke and thought, not mincing words or beating around the bush to get to the point.

While many would not call out the Bush administration, with Democratic Party support, "imperialist" Betty was always explaining how and why an attack on Iraq was another example of over 100 years of US imperialist attacks on nations of the Global south for the purpose of complete domination and massive extraction of oil and every other natural resource.

She could easily explain the complex situation in the Middle East in a few words, painting for people a picture of the interface of Zionism and US imperialism and how this was another step in destroying a progressive society that followed the genocidal sanctions against Iraq by Clinton.

Both Neal and Betty have exemplified, week after week, year after year, with incredible dedication, consistency and never backing down or giving up how to both do base building among their neighbors and comrades in Albany Park on Chicago’s northwest side and provide leadership on the struggle to bring down US imperialism.

They are/were multi-dimensional, personable, friendly, and we always knew where they stood on every issue

Thank you Sister and Comrade Betty for everything you have done, everything you have taught us

And Thank you Brother and Comrade Neal for continuing to carry on the valiant fight

May the spirit and inspiration of you both live forever!

It has been an honor to know and fight on with both of you!

Hasta la Victoria Siempre!

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Stu Smith, long-time political acquaintance—

So sorry to hear about Betty. She was a great fighter and revolutionary. She was an inspiration. I would see her often at demonstrations always engaging people, always handing out fliers to educate about the problems of this capitalist system and urging people to fight. She was, especially, in the last few years, sitting on a rollator but that didn't handicap her spirit and drive to organize and mobilize people to make the world a better place.

We need more like Betty especially in these most difficult times to be out there to join the fight for a revolutionary new world. She is missed already.

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Pat Gleason, long-time political acquaintance—

Betty ¡Presente!

Oh, Neal, I'm really sorry to hear your news. She was such a fighter, a really good woman that wouldn't be kept down by any obstacles. It's even harder for you now since family, friends, comrades can't come together to celebrate her well-lived life and to give you some comfort in this time of grief. Emails can't take the place of hugs and shared stories.

 Know that your friends are thinking about you, wishing you the best in this tough time, and having good thoughts about Betty's beautiful life in struggle.

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Jeff Sarles, long-time Chicago political activist--

Very sorry to hear the news about Betty.  Her courage in the face of formidable obstacles, her insistence on overcoming them, her passion for social justice — all were exemplary and inspirational.

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Lanny Younger, participant in meetings of the Albany Park neighborhood group--

 My wife and I frequented your meetings a few years ago on a fairly regular basis. When I started losing my wife to the ravages of dementia, that curtailed our vigils. She has been living in an assisted living facility in New Lenox for the past year and a half and I have not been able to visit her for several weeks due to the coronavirus lock-down. I want to send my condolences to you for your loss. You and Betty were always very inclusive and the cause for which you worked is one about which Phyl and I felt very strongly. As I have lost my wife and best friend in stages, I think I can understand your sense of loss. Keep up the good work as I know that Betty would wish that.

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Michael Levin, pro-Palestinian activist and jazz musician--

My condolences on the passing of Betty. I am thankful, and I was honored, to play for you and she at your 50th anniversary celebration, and my thoughts go out to you and all of her friends and loved ones

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Peggy Valdes, activist working in solidarity with Mexico and Cuba—

Neal, I am so sorry for your personal loss and the movement's loss at Betty's passing. What an excellent comrade and partner for you. She will be missed.

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Sira Shairi, an old friend—

 I’m so sorry to hear about Betty. May she be in peace.

 I had the pleasure and honor to meet you and Betty when you came to Buffalo many years ago. You were our guests and I was so inspired by Betty’s spirit and enthusiasm for peace and justice. Your short stay was packed with memorable discussions and activities including making chicken cacciatore for everyone!

 I also remember Betty meeting my mom who has since died. My mother was an immigrant to this country and Betty’s open and friendly nature made an impression on her. Even years later my mom would ask about Betty from Chicago.

 Please know that Betty’s work for social justice and against war and imperialism will always be remembered and cherished. May her fighting spirit live on.

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Mary Shesgreen, Fox Valley Peace and Justice activist--

I am sorry that you have lost your beloved wife and stalwart ally, Betty.  I have a strong impression of what a deep and caring bond existing between the two of you, and of how much spunk and intelligence Betty had.

I will be thinking of you.

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Ken Belcher, long-time political acquaintance—

I always felt uplifted when I saw Betty at rallies; she made her commitment to justice clear, and listening to her, I knew there would be victories ahead.

 If I saw one of you, the other was almost certainly present. You belonged together, two good people, seemingly indefatigable. I will miss Betty, but I am glad for the times we shared.

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Michael Weinert, long-time political acquaintance—

 I was saddened to hear of Betty's passing. She was a beautiful soul, gutsy and intelligent. You were lucky to have had her in your life.

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 Alderman Rossana Rodríguez, 33rd ward—

I heard about the passing of your wife Betty and I wanted to send you lots of love and solidarity. Betty will be remembered for her endless fighting spirit on behalf of justice, protecting our people and her massive heart. If it is okay with you, I would like to offer to memorialize Betty in City Council. I would also like to plant a tree in her name after this period is over.

I am here for you, please reach out if you need anything.  You have community and we have an endless amount of solidarity and love for you.

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 Tom Baker, long-time political activist—

 Betty will live forever. Always compassionate and always lifting our spirits.

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Maria Pizarro, long time Chicago political activist--

My dear Neal, this is Maria the Chilean, who participated with both of you in many marches against the war. Today I just found out about the death of your best friend your partner, Betty. For you my most sincere condolences. I am with you in such difficult times. I have been in Santiago for months.

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Julie Wolenski, Chicago activist—

 I was sorry to hear about the passing of Betty. Your tribute was wonderful and altho I never met Betty, she clearly left her mark in the fight for social justice.

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Dr. Lora Chamberlain, Chicago political activist—

I am so sorry. I am just stunned.
Betty was a true, dedicated, progressive, she is going to be so missed! Wishing you peace and comfort. Your Memorial website and Remembrances of Betty are wonderful.

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Marguerite Horberg, Chicago political activist--

Shelby and I are deeply saddened to learn of the death of Betty. We fondly remember her at our work at Senn High School protesting the militarization with the Rickover Academy. She was a strong and tireless advocate for peace and justice and was always on the front lines at demonstrations and organizing for normalization with Cuba. Our sympathies are extended to Neal and her many friends, colleagues and family. May her memory be a blessing.

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Roy Lipscomb, Chicago political activist—

I'm so aggrieved to hear of Betty's passing!  My heart goes out to you!

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Hatem Abudayyeh, long time Chicago leader in advocacy for Palestinians’ rights, and political friend—

Neal, I am so sorry for your loss. My family has experienced a lot of it lately, and so I feel a bit of what you're feeling, but I'm sure it's incomparable to the loss of a partner of 60 years.

You are so lucky that the love of your life was also your comrade. It was so clear to everyone who knew you both that what you and Betty had was special.

My crew and I are thinking of you at this challenging time, and sending our best. Please stay healthy and safe.

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Newland Smith, long-time political activist in Chicago--

I am so sorry to learn of the sudden death of Betty. Betty was so faithful in coming to protests and rallies at Federal Plaza. She will be greatly missed. Peace to you.

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Mike Sinner, long-time political activist with the Albany Park peace and justice neighborhood group--

I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Betty for over 15 years, having been drawn to her and Neal through peace and justice activities in 2003. From very early on Betty impressed me as a remarkably strong, informed, and tireless advocate for all things good. And she was always ready to back up words with action. For several years she and Neal hosted meetings, discussions and a book club at their home. And Betty was the consummate hostess,  never failing to remember a birthday, graduation or other life event of any in our circle. These meetings were especially important for me to gain the support I needed during the very disturbing U.S. war on Iraq.

Two instances stand out in my mind which exemplify how admirably Betty interacted with others. In one she and I differed on an environmental issue, which surprised me because we were both environmentalists. I thought tax credits should be given to residents for putting up solar panels. During our ensuring discussion Betty changed my mind. My mind doesn’t get changed often. She said it would be better to have public control over putting up solar panels, with the people in control. I changed my mind, not because she was more knowledgeable of the facts, but because she had a broader outlook. With the same facts she saw what I myself had failed to see.

In the other instance a small number of us disagreed with Betty on a different issue, and Betty was initially incredulous with our position but the next time we met she told us that she understood our argument and reconsidered it and found it an acceptable position from which to proceed. No statesman could have done better.

Betty’s heart always was in the right place; she was informed, committed, and respectful of others but not afraid to speak truth to power. I’m a better person for having known Betty. I’m certain many others can say that as well. Betty lived her life very well!

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Maria Gamboa, Chicago political activist—

I remember Betty at an anti-war meeting. By that time she sat in a rollator. I’m sorry this virus took her life, but she leaves a wonderful legacy for family and the anti-war movement.

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Julissa Castañeda and Mario, long-time political friends including Magda--

My family and I were very saddened to hear about Betty's passing. We will always remember the kind, gentle soul that was Betty and her powerful  presence in the movement. Rest in power Amiga✊ -with Love the Castañeda family-

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Isaac Silver and Wendy Mironov, long-time Chicago activists—

I am remembering Betty fondly. Such a remarkable woman. I told Wendy the news and she shared that Betty was a very inspirational woman to her.

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Laura Paz, long-time Chicago activist--

I did not know Betty very well, but I always thought of her as the matriarch of our movimiento here in Chicago. Not only because she was older than most of us, but because whenever she was present at an action or at an action or at a meeting, she spoke respectfully, calmly, rationally and with wisdom. Betty and I didn’t move in the same circles that frequently, but I was always curious about her. Now that she has gone before us, I feel this great sense of loss that I didn’t get to know her better, didn’t have the opportunity to learn more from her. And what I truly admired about her was that she was a genuine internationalist! To me, she really seemed to lead a life totally dedicated to the people of the world. For that I am sad that she has gone on.

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Pat Chrastka, swimming pool regular and friend from the chat lane—

I am so sorry to hear. Betty was such a kind person, so up-beat and always had a smile. Never a cross word to say but you could always think how she felt with those expressive eyes. I was just getting ready to send off a birthday card for the 18th, which she always celebrated for the whole month.

We are in such hard times with this current health issue in our world. Know that you are in my prayers during this difficult time. Love and peace.

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Melanie Feerst, pool friend—

 Pat told me the horrible news of Betty’s passing. I think of my Indy pool friends often and am so sad to hear this. Betty was so wonderful to have a conversation with and her good humor and passion was inspiring!

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United Neighbors of the 35th Ward—

We are very sorry to hear about the loss of Betty. We know you and Betty have been longtime peace and justice community activists. All of us at the United Neighbors of the 35th Ward are keeping you in our thoughts and hearts. We send our deepest condolences. Wishing you strength and peace in the days ahead. With love, Joyce and Lenny Brody, Anthony Quezado, Jonathan Nagy, Sandra Puebla, Levi Todd, Aaron Messner-Schaak, Rachel Dart, Kirsten Rokke

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Nancy Mikelsons and Don Goldhamer, friends mainly from work in opposition to U.S. interference in Cuba--

We learned of Betty's passing only recently. Don and I were both in the midst of  distracting medical issues and weren't being alert.

Of course we send you our thoughts and sadness, I never sawanyone swing a cane with as much insistence as Betty. I especially remember both of you participating in the art show of the work of the Cuban Five and how many meetings you both attended.

People like you and Betty are the builders of movements that make change.

We send you our warmest thoughts and if there is any way we can be of support to you and any family we would like to be supportive in any way that would be useful.

While we missed the chance to get to know both of you well, nonetheless our respect and affection is very genuine and we hope you will call on us if there is in way we can be of support in some way. With our genuine respect, affection and sympathy…

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Molly Waite, formerly politically active in Chicago—

 I used to live in Chicago until I moved to Brooklyn about 5 years ago.

 I really appreciate Betty’s fight for justice in different places and in various ways.  And I know you both were involved as well in local, national and international causes.  You all have been writing for years about just causes at Senn High School where I used to tutor!

 I am so sorry that she died of Covid virus, but she put up a good fight!

 It is wonderful that you and she worked together with speeches, fliers and demonstrations to right the wrongs of the world.  You all together influenced so many causes and demonstrations against the injustices of the world. And considering the past, I think you will continue fighting causes of the present and future.

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Therese Nordine, an old Chicago friend—

 I was very sorry to hear about Betty’s passing.  She was such a lovely person, always a smile for everyone and she had genuine interest in what others had to say.  How quick witted she was. Brilliant mind. My heartfelt condolences.

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Clare Hoeppner for Midwest Workers Association—

We are sorry to hear of the loss of Betty. She was a true friend of Venezuela and working people around the world. It is always heartening for younger members of the movement to learn of Betty’s example—who remained true and dedicated to the cause her entire life. In solidarity…

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Carelia Drake Rivero, Chicago activist--

I am so sorry that Betty has passed away after her long battle with coronavirus. Our thoughts and prayers are with her. My sincere sympathy.

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Jan Boudart, long-time Chicago activist, writing on July 14—

Never a complaint from Betty. She was political to the core and always placed her responsibilities and the needs of the group above her physical troubles. I saw Neal today, and he is carrying on the tradition. Nevertheless, it must be hard without her. My condolences go to him and all the others who loved Betty. We missed her at the rally today.

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Chris Geovanis, long-time Chicago activist—

I cherish and appreciate you both. We will carry on for Betty.

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Rick Rozoff, long-time political friend who was an important collector of documents and analysis of the great harm done by the U.S.-led North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO). For many years he had entries under the heading of Stop NATO—

If ever there were two comrades who worked shoulder-to-shoulder always, that couple was Betty and you. My heart is broken. Please accept whatever I can provide you - sympathy and solidarity.

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CAWC Resolution on the Passing of Betty Resnikoff April 28, 2020

Chicago Anti-War Coalition declares we will continue our work against the attacks of the U.S. ruling class on peoples abroad and here at home keeping the spirit of Betty Resnikoff at the forefront of our actions. And we encourage all others to do the same.

Betty was a founding member of CAWC, and a stalwart in proposing actions and leaflets. She was dedicated to the principle that the U.S. government has no right to interfere in the internal affairs of other countries, and that they have the full right to self-determination to create whatever governmental system they decide upon. She was also dedicated to raising the issues of the day among the broad masses, having friendly discussion with them, and urging everyone to unite in actions against the depredations of the U.S. ruling class and its government.

We urge everyone to encourage others to contribute thoughts and memories for this web site memorializing Betty to inform and inspire others. Send messages to NealBetty@AOL.COM

As the labor organizer Joe Hill said before being executed in 1915, Don’t mourn, Organize.                                                               5.5.20

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From: the National Office of CPC(M-L), Communist Party of Canada (Marxist-Leninist) –

Dearest Neal,

We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of Betty. You have our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts are with you.

Betty and you have been with us since the time we laid the foundations for the Party.

On the occasion of CPC(M-L)'s 50th anniversary we pay specific tribute to all those who were present when, together  with Comrade Bains, the difficult but rewarding work was done to forge the unity of all Marxist-Leninists in one Party and who remained loyal to this cause all their lives.

Fidelity to the principles we ourselves established, on the high road of civilization, is the quality we treasure above all else.  Both of you have always represented that above all else. We have and continue to be one force and Betty's name is indelibly inscribed on the pages of the many many struggles waged in the 20th and 21st centuries by the U.S. working class, in which the people in Chicago stand in the vanguard, second to none.

On the eve of May Day we are ever conscious of that. This year we will think of Betty, her fidelity and life-long dedication and contribution to this cause, in the best tradition of the fighting U.S. working class. It is truly inspiring, heroic and greatly appreciated.

We are at your disposal, whatever we can do to help you in this very difficult moment.

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Memoriam Message from the U.S. Marxist-Leninist Organization

It is with deepest sadness that we inform you that our dear comrade Betty Resnikoff passed away on April 28 from the covid-19 virus. Words cannot describe the depth of our sorrow. Her wonderful smile and deep convictions always encouraged us all.

 Betty was a founding member of the U.S. Marxist-Leninist Organization, an internationalist who supported the cause of the peoples worldwide, a teacher and youth organizer, an artist and fighter for peace, justice and a new society fit for all.

 Along with other graduate students, Betty began looking into communism while at the University of Wisconsin in Madison and a teacher at Wisconsin State College at Eau Claire in the 1960s. She pursued that direction and joined the communist movement and its efforts at building a Marxist-Leninist Party at that time, which continued while teaching at Rhode Island College. There, along with others who played important roles in the fields of literature and ideology, she also contributed to the literary magazine, Literature and Ideology, which had a very broad following and significant presence. Betty was also active in mobilizing faculty and youth to oppose the U.S. imperialist war in Vietnam and to defend the right to education.

Betty's internationalist spirit was evident from the start, as she played an instrumental role in uniting Marxist-Leninists in the U.S. and developing relations with the Communist Party of Canada (Marxist-Leninist) and its leader Hardial Bains, who encouraged us to stand on our own feet. In each country and by developing fraternal relations, communists persisted in the difficult and rewarding work to forge the unity of Marxist-Leninists in one organization.

 In Boston Betty was active in a strike of teachers at Boston University, worked with artists and cultural groups and promoted the world's progressive culture. She stood with the Palestinians and consistently fought for their cause. The same was true in Philadelphia and Chicago.

 Everywhere, she stood for the fraternal unity of the peoples and their vital and leading communist organizations, paying attention to the importance of organization in defending the rights of all in the U.S. and abroad and opening the path to a bright future.

 In Chicago she continued work as a professor, organizing discussion groups addressing the key question of the day, that of political empowerment of the people. The cruel and criminal conditions faced by all in the midst of the current corona virus pandemic have made clear the necessity for the people to govern and decide so that their rights are provided with a guarantee. Betty recognized and fought for this to the very end, always thinking of others and contributing to their well-being and unity. One of her last comments was to emphasize the need for workers to unite.

Betty also joined in defending the rights of immigrants and continued to work against imperialist war and for peace and justice, often speaking at rallies and forums. She contributed to organizing and sending out newsletters to mobilize neighbors, workers and students to take a public stand against imperialist war and for an anti-war government, one that would bring all troops home and contribute to defending the interests of all humanity. She helped ensure newsletters were translated into Spanish, was known as a sign-maker for demonstrations, as well as providing political cartoons and the information needed for people to draw their own conclusions. She was an organizer and regular at weekly demonstrations against U.S. wars, using her good humor and insights to engage people in discussion.

 Throughout her long life and despite her own health difficulties, Betty stayed true to her convictions and lived her life with great fidelity to the necessity for change, the necessity for organization to bring about that change, and the necessity for social love for all, something she embodied so well and with such grace.

We extend our deepest condolences to her beloved husband and life-partner Neal, to all her family, to her many friends and comrades. She will be dearly missed and long remembered by the many whose lives she touched and inspired.

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Friends now in India who were in the U.S. and remember Betty-- Gopal, Shiela and others—

 Dear Neal,

On behalf of the comrades and friends of Betty who live in India at this time, we would like to convey our heartfelt condolences to you and to all her loved ones.  Many of us were students in the US in the 1970s and 1980s, active as members of Indian Progressive Study Groups and Bhagat Singh Sports & Cultural Clubs in university campuses.  We remember Betty very fondly.

The first time we met both of you was in Philadelphia.  When one of our comrades was killed in a highway crash, and a few of us had gone to view the body, Betty and you were there with us, which was a great source of moral support.  From subsequent meetings and participation in political actions when you were in the Boston area, we have many precious memories of Betty, her profound internationalist spirit.  She considered the cause of liberation of the Indian people as her own.  She genuinely worked for humanity. As the peoples of all countries struggle to end the man-eating capitalist-imperialist system, there is need for more like Betty in our midst.

She lived life the way it must be lived.  Her loss is a terrible blow. Please be as strong as you can.  May her memory inspire us forever!

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Neal Resnikoff—

I think it is great that people are sharing their memories of Betty and thoughts about her. This helps to keep alive her inspiring example in the midst of this difficult period of activity by the peace and justice movement,and what we can do as individuals. And whatever anyone else can share will be greatly appreciated.

This is what I would like to share.

There are all kinds of stories I can tell about my life with Betty, but I’m going to focus on what was central to her—the fight for justice in this world. This was shown even on her last morning on Tuesday, April 28, which we did not know would be her last morning.  In my phone call to her in the hospital, even when she was having trouble breathing and talking, she expressed joy at hearing about the latest protest of workers, the nurses at Cook County Hospital who are demanding proper protective gear for working with victims of the covid-19 virus and others. 

Betty was a devoted friend and comrade of mine for over 60 years. On a daily basis she was a regular and devoted political analyst and organizer and fighter. She always made it her aim to make me and others think and strive to unite maximum people to make a better world. She would always ask, “What is the political aim of this or that proposal or action?” “What is our plan?” “When can we go out with this leaflet among the people and have discussion with them about opposing the oppression of the ruling class and working to build a new society?”

Betty did many kind-hearted and generous things for people, including me, over the years. This was part of her outlook on the world, which always expressed itself in discussing what was going on around her and in the wider world, and wheeling into action.

I would like to suggest that Betty is a model for what each of us could be doing more of in the world.  

Betty was a life-long fighter against injustice. 

In her young adulthood Betty became a fighting and militant supporter of changing the system of the rich ruling class in the U.S. She saw that it exploits and oppresses the working class and other people at home, and interferes illegally and unjustly in countries around the world. Betty was very much for having a system of, by, and for the people, socialism, and eventually communism.  

Betty vigorously took up various immediate issue struggles and organizing to mobilize people in such a way as to open the path in this country to socialism and communism. Betty devoted much time and energy to opening the door to building a U.S. Marxist-Leninist Party that would encourage and organize people for the needed revolutionary struggle. 

Betty’s life-long fight against injustice began when she was still a child. 

One of Betty’s early struggles against injustice was at age 4 or so against her mother, who often laid down arbitrary rules in a strict way with a lot of verbal abuse. 

One night, when her mother reached out from their apartment door to drop a bag in the shoot to the incinerator, her foot holding the door open slipped, and the door slammed shut. She then called on Betty to open the door. But Betty said, “No. My mommy told me not to open the door for anyone.” And Betty did not relent, no matter how much her mother pleaded. Her mother had to spend the night at a neighbor’s until her husband came home from work to unlock the door. Is this not a pure case of passive-aggression against a purveyor of injustice? 

Betty lived in a public housing project, which she enjoyed immensely because of all the kids and other people who were around. She fought for equality for girls. She insisted on being a member of an all boys “gang,” and, of course, they had to let her in. 

Betty was always an anti-materialist, pro-people person. When her parents asked her to make a choice between having a bicycle or a new baby brother or sister, without hesitation Betty chose to have the new baby. 

This turned out to be her brother Jim. Both Jim and the next brother, Chuck, who were also abused psychologically by her mother. She would yell at them for not doing various chores in the absolutely exact way she wanted them done. Betty always offered both of them her support and friendship. 

Betty always wanted to unite with other people, not just be someone who wanted to show off in front of others, or express superiority.

In junior high school, for example, where Betty and her girl friends were honor roll students, she was concerned with the fact that students not on the honor roll thought they were stuck up nerds who were above them. And so she organized her friends not to be on the honor roll for one semester and to focus on playing basketball well so as to show they were ordinary people who were not above the others. 

Betty’s contempt for the system showed up in high school after she won a first prize for her essay in the fire prevention contest. The next year she submitted the same essay, just to be “smart.” (Ironically, she won again. She kept her medals for many years, and laughed at the story.  (Maybe I will find them in cleaning up.)

Betty grew up in a household that was Italian Methodist. She was a part of the chorus and other activities, and was thinking about going to a Methodist college in the Midwest. But her parents objected to her leaving home in Yonkers, New York, for a distant college. Luckily a high school teacher informed Betty how she could apply for a scholarship at the New York University School of Education. She got the scholarship, and so was able to live at home and commute to college classes, the first in her family to go to college. 

At the NYU School of Education, one of the first things Betty did was to apply to become a reporter for the Education Sun, hoping to be a Brenda Starr, the glamorous and adventurous reporter in the comic strip “Brenda Starr.” It happened that the editor was sophomore Neal Resnikoff, and he welcomed anyone who was willing to be on the staff. 

Betty was quickly given an assignment to cover a political debate by a couple of local politicians. Betty reported on the political meeting well, and ended her article by heaping sharp disdain on the Republican candidate for not showing up for the debate. It was printed. The Dean was very upset, and called Neal into his office. Neal defended the article, and Betty, and she continued writing other articles for the paper. 

Betty would come to the newspaper office regularly, and she would talk with Neal. One topic of repeated conversation was her wrestling with whether she could really continue to follow her religion, both with questions about the tenets of the religion and what she perceived as hypocrisy between preaching and practice that she observed.

Neal, with no knowledge about Christianity, really had no idea what she was talking about half of the time, but always showed interest and support by repeatedly saying, “Uh huh” and “Mmmm.” Betty was really impressed by Neal’s interest and support, and considered him a good and understanding person and friend. 

That friendship continued for the next 4-5 years, initially with Betty sharing with Neal her experiences and thoughts, including about being at the university. Betty decided, for example, to switch from being an art education major to becoming a sociology major. She was very interested in learning more about how people were part of society, and what made everything tick, and what stand we should take in the world. 

One class Betty took was with Sydney Hook, the charismatic and famous polemical professor of philosophy at NYU, an activist and debater about politics, who, at the time we were at NYU was pretty reactionary, politically. During Hook’s lectures, Betty would often raise her hand to question and challenge some point he was making. He decided to not call on her anymore. Betty often chided Neal that he had not been as active as she was in challenging Hook. 

Betty was interested in going to plays and concerts when she could. But this is mainly a story about her fighting spirit, and not about the plays, though she favored ones that focused on important social issues and relationships. 

Betty took up Neal’s invitation to drive with him a few hours north to hear the Boston Symphony Orchestra at the outside Tanglewood Music Shed. The agreement was, since they were both short on money, that they would sneak in using a method Neal had used many times, climbing under a fence at a certain spot. But, when they tried it, security was there and blocked the way. Security had discovered the entry way under the fence.

Betty, undeterred and showing what a good sport she was, agreed to follow Neal to another spot, where they would climb over the fence, a fence that had barbed wire at the top. Neal boosted Betty up, and she did well, throwing her leg over the barbed wire. But she got her pants caught on the barbed wire as she went down. She let er rip, and landed inside the concert venue. Neal then followed. It began to rain. They huddled under a blanket and with gusto ate the cherry pie they had brought. Then Neal drove Betty back home, as she was not allowed by her parents to stay anywhere away from home over night.

When Neal picked up Betty to drive to the concert, the pick-up was at Betty’s place. She introduced Neal to her mother, and they had a little chit chat before heading out. Betty was very upset with her mother the next day when she found out that her mother had a very negative view of Neal because he had not been wearing socks. Betty told her mother that Neal was very nice and she should not get stuck about the matter of socks.  But her mother would not relent. Betty did not insist that Neal start wearing socks, except maybe when he was going to see her mother.

Neal and Betty went to a number of cultural events and sites. One was Shakespeare outdoors in Central Park. Betty found that a very memorable occasion because it turned out that the full moon hit her eye like a big pizza pie, and it was amore. She always referred to that as the time she fell in love with Neal.

Neal invited Betty to drive with him to Southern New Jersey to visit a farm there called Koininea. This was an interracial farm that was a rest home for people who had been working against racial segregation in the heart of Ku Klux Klan territory in Georgia. Betty took the train out from New York City to Neal’s Central Jersey town of Plainfield, and then they drove the few hours down to Koininea. It was a very informative and inspiring visit at the farm.

They could not stay all that long as Betty would have to get back to Yonkers, New York before it got too late. She had not told her parents where she was going. As luck would have it, when they got in the car to return to Plainfield, the car would not start, right in the middle of nowhere but cornfields. And there was the issue of Betty having to get home that night.

Neal called his home to ask his father for advice. His father generously offered to drive down and see what the story was. He ended up pushing Neal’s car with his own car back to Plainfield. Betty was faced with a difficult situation, since Neal’s parents were against this nice Jewish boy having anything to do with non-Jewish girls. But she decided to be very diplomatic and just be friendly. When Neal and Betty arrived at the house, Neal’s brothers and mother rushed out to meet Betty. They asked what her name was, and Neal told them Betty. Mother wanted to know her last name. Rather than give away that she had the Italian name of Alfini, Neal said her last name was Wetty. And she remained Betty Wetty until, upon leaving the next morning, after getting permission from her mother to stay over, Neal’s father said arriva derci. Neal’s mother said, arriva what? And blew a gasket, insisting on talking to Betty’s mother. Neal’s mother told Betty’s mother that Neal and Betty should have nothing more to do with each other, and Betty’s mother agreed.

Anyway, neither Betty nor Neal gave in to this injustice, and they continued to see each as often as they could.

At the end of the summer of 1953 Neal went off to graduate school at the University of Wisconsin, and they both wrote to each other regularly. Then Betty finally got permission from her family to leave home, and the next year she went to the University of California in Berkeley for graduate work.

 Betty was very upset at the emphasis in the sociology graduate program. It was mainly compiling and analyzing statistics. She was more interested in meeting and talking with people and then analyzing from there. She decided to make a change. This was based on stories Neal told her about his experiences teaching in a junior high school in the Mission District of San Francisco. (After two years of graduate school, he was running out of money and took a teaching job in San Francisco, just across the Bay from where Betty was located, in Berkeley.)

Betty went into a teacher-training program for students who had a liberal arts degree. That was the beginning of a teaching career of some 50 years or so, from junior high school to college, always encouraging students to become aware of issues of the day involving injustice, and to take up critical thinking. And she was active in organizations of teachers which addressed issues of injustice.

Betty married Neal on June 11, 1960, with both saying they would give marriage a try. They agreed they would discuss any differences of opinion that came up in and about the marriage, and try to find a reconciliation that both could live with.

That year Neal came home from school saying there was a notice in the Superintendent’s bulletin announcing applications were being taken for a program called Teachers for East Africa, a program run by Teachers College Columbia University in New York under the auspices of the U.S. government’s Agency for International Development. Neal asked Betty if they should apply. Betty immediately said yes.

They agreed they would not be mouthpieces for the injustices and racism and imperialism of the U.S. government. In their joint application they said, “ We both have a keen interest in world affairs and curiosity about the people and problems of Africa… We feel that the East African program would allow us to teach and learn in an intense and meaningful way.”

Betty quickly learned in Zanzibar, where we were assigned, that this was a program that was aimed at giving a positive picture of the U.S. government. Betty and Neal did their best to counteract the notion of American equality and justice through discussion with students, fellow teachers, and others. Betty and Neal also learned this program often inserted teachers at the expense of trained local teachers who really should have had those jobs. They united with those teachers in their denunciation of the U.S. government for this.

Betty taught at the secondary school for girls in Zanzibar. She encouraged the students, who all wore head to floor black coverings called bui buis, to express their views and apply critical thinking. The students responded with great enthusiasm, and felt liberated from the non-content method the British teachers taught in this British protectorate.

Betty and Neal united with their hired household help, Issa, in his political activism in a party dedicated to independence from the British protectorate and the local ruling Sultan of Oman. (The Zanzibar revolution was eventually squelched by efforts of the U.S. government and the Tanganyikan government, which forced Zanzibar to become part of Tanganyika and  renamed the country Tanzania).

From the heat of the Equator, Betty and Neal applied for teaching positions at Eau Claire State College in Wisconsin, where wind chills could reach 50 degrees below zero. And they were accepted. Betty and Neal were active in the teachers’ union and in opposing the U.S. war in Vietnam. They were both fired after three years because of this, and nothing else, as their teaching of critical thinking skills was judged excellent by everyone who knew of their work. Students rose up in large numbers to protest in the freezing weather, refusing hot chocolate offered by the wife of the President of the College. Students also appealed to the governor of the state, and nominated Betty and Neal to be Queen and King of the College prom.

Betty and Neal during their graduate studies at the University of Wisconsin at Madison, mostly during the summer breaks from teaching at Eau Claire,  joined with a number of other graduate students concerned about the problems of the U.S. society and the role of the U.S. government who decided to have a Study Group to read and discuss Karl Marx’s Communist Manifesto. They were convinced one cannot make the changes needed in society just by attacking one problem at a time, though that was also important to do.

 They took this broader view with them when they took up teaching jobs in Providence, Rhode Island, with Betty at Rhode Island College. At Rhode Island College Betty was lucky enough to have as colleagues a few people who focused on the class basis of each work of literature or art and published articles based on this. They raised the question, Whose class interests does this work serve? And they analyzed various works studying the class role it played at the time it was written, and the class role it plays today, if it was being studied in courses today.

As well, Betty experienced an exhilarating mass turnout of students and faculty in opposition to the U.S. war in Vietnam, and discussion during this gathering on how this was an unjust and illegal expression of U.S. imperialism, and the demand for All U.S. Troops Out Now!

Betty made friends with and followed up for years with these colleagues and worked to apply their outlook.

It turned out they were inspired and educated to take this stand by the application of Marxism-Leninism in Canada, by the Communist Party of Canada (Marxist-Leninist). This in turn inspired efforts in the U.S. to form a Marxist-Leninist party. Betty was very active in taking this up as a way of defeating exploitation and oppression in the U.S. and U.S. imperialism, and replacing it with socialism and eventually communism.

Betty took this up as she was active in organizing at Boston University, where she participated in a strike of the faculty.  And she taught at the University of Massachusetts in Boston and assisted in a political study group there. One of the good stories about Betty in Boston that shows her fighting spirit happened when she was participating in a team pasting up posters advertising an upcoming political meeting. After she pasted up a poster on a wall along the stairs at a rapid transit stop, she saw a woman in a fur coat begin to tear down the poster she had just put up. Betty yelled at the woman and told her to stop or else. When the woman didn’t stop Betty went back down the stairs and dumped the bucket of paste over the woman’s head and fur coat. Betty then ran.

 Then Betty was active in Philadelphia. She volunteered to go there because the party building organization she was with saw the importance of building a local unit in that working class city.  Betty was instrumental in organizing part-time teachers, of which there were many, into a union at Philadelphia Community College, where she taught. This was one of the first efforts to organize part-timers in the country. It was successful, after a bold and militant strike and picket line.

After working in Philadelphia, Betty moved to Chicago, also to work on building political organization there. She taught at DePaul and Devry and then the University of Illinois in Chicago (UIC). Betty kept working on the methods and content of her teaching. Rather than be the teacher, she became the coach. She urged the students to keep on working on papers and skills until they mastered them, with grades based on their final products, not on the weak efforts they may have made along the way.

Betty hit the headlines in the school newspaper at UIC and support from many students when, during political discussion at a table in the cafeteria the university administration demanded that she stop. Betty said that she and the students had every right to continue the political discussion they were having. The administration then sent the campus police to handcuff Betty and take her away. While they were doing this, Betty shouted out to all the students in the cafeteria that their rights to have political discussion were being violated.

On the way to the campus police station and inside the station, Betty kept explaining to the police how the arrest was a violation of basic rights. And they listened. Because the administration initially decided not to press charges—of trespassing on her own campus!—the police said they would release her. But she indicated she needed a ride back to the Student Center. While they were making the arrangements for the ride, the administration called to say to keep on holding Betty because they were seriously considering putting on charges. But the police told the person on the phone that Betty had already left!

Another good story that shows Betty’s militant spirit came when she went up to Northwestern University in Evanston to support a protest there against the CIA coming on campus to interview students for jobs with the CIA. In the midst of the protest and its circular picket, one of the students from the Conservative Club broke through the line, carrying a U.S. flag. Betty just moved forward and grabbed the flag from the fellow and threw it on the ground. Some people who were at the protest remember to this day this action by Betty.

Betty has been active with starting and building a neighborhood peace and justice organization in Chicago, and the Chicago Anti-War Committee. She was an active writer of draft leaflets and proposals for action, and was a speaker at rallies and forums. Even when Betty was having trouble with increasingly painful legs, she would go out for distribution of leaflets or for holding up a placard at a demonstration, in the coldest weather, sitting on her rollator.

Even in the deepest days of pain and woe since last September while at home, and then in and out of the hospital, and in and out of the care center, and then when she had increasing trouble speaking (perhaps because of the corona virus), she would bring up political issues and state how important it is to oppose the U.S. government interfering in other countries, and the importance of workers’ unity and action.

Betty has been and is a model for all of us to follow. We need to be active to change the world, knowing from history that it can be done. That is an important way to influence others and win the battle of public opinion. Even people she knew from years ago when she was in Boston stay in touch and are active based at least partly on Betty’s influence.

As I said at the beginning of this piece, Betty was a life-long fighter against injustice. And how about each of us doing more on this front to make a similar contribution to making a better world for us, our children, and the working class and people throughout the U.S. and in countries across the world?

On the last days of her life, including in the morning of her death, we would talk on the phone, even with her trouble breathing. I would tell her stories about how the workers were protesting, and she would always say something like “That is very good.” On one of her last days she said, “The workers must be united.”

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