Gerry Heisler Ph.D.

About

Gerry Heisler, Ph.D., A senior clinical psychologist, Heisler writes about relationships with over 40 years of front-line clinical experience as a psychotherapist, assistant professor, and marital therapist. He has dealt with couples and individuals of all ages. He has investigated how to find love and make love last. He earned a Ph.D. in psychology after graduating Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Illinois. He has spoken at national conferences and appears on television regularly in his regional market. Based in Columbia, Missouri, he has been interviewed by many newspapers and magazines and has served as a reference for ABC's 20-20. He has made many speaking presentations on a wide variety of psychological topics. He has authored the book Making Love Last.

Recent Posts

5 Signs That You're in a Healthy Relationship

Ask yourself: Does my relationship feel satisfying?

Does Disappointing Others Make You Want to Give Up?

It sucks to date sometimes. If you end up feeling hurt or like you are hurting others, what do you do?

Having to Hit Bottom Before You Change Is Often a Fallacy

Many people struggle with behaviors that are self-sabotaging. Here's why and what to do about it.

Do You Contribute to Your Own Depression?

How many of these depression-generating factors apply to you?

Was That Text You Sent Really Heart-felt or a Manipulation?

Are you as genuine and honest communicating as you think?

Can You Overcome a Broken Heart?

After a breakup, do wait or start over? Often you must see your former partner realistically and not through rose colored glasses. It's a time to learn how to be alone without being lonely.

Dealing with Affairs Part Two

What can you expect to do with an unfaithful partner? If you believe they have asexual addiction, suggestions are made. A case scenario further explains what being unfaithful can create.

Sorry eHarmony, Compatibility Is Overrated

Many prefer people who compliment their preferences and interests. Sometimes, we marry the person we want to become. The stoic accountant marries the vivacious, extroverted party girl who in turn likes the stability and calm he provides. If two become one, who or what is the one they become?

Testing Others Can Sabotage Your Relationships

When you test your partner, he or she may be failing an examination and not know that a quiz has been given.

You Can Be Too Controlling For Your Own Good and Drive Lovers Away

Can you only love someone who cares less about you than you do about them? Your control manevuers may be causing you problems.