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Wishing For a Star
It's supposed to go like this. Boy meets girl, they fall madly in love with each other, battle some shit in their way, and after conquering the challenge, they ride off to their happily ever after.
But, not one fairytale, or love story tells you that after that ride, life happens. We had our story, and we were supposed to live happily in our bubble forever. After one check-up, our bubble burst and reality started to invade. And now, facing the unsure road of IVF treatment, we have to be stronger than ever. Once again, we must go into battle for our happily ever after. Taking that first step was easy. Staying on this road is harder than we thought.
And now, with unexpected obstacles in the way, it’s not a question of if the IVF will succeed. It’s will we be strong enough to stay together and reach for the stars?
But, not one fairytale, or love story tells you that after that ride, life happens. We had our story, and we were supposed to live happily in our bubble forever. After one check-up, our bubble burst and reality started to invade. And now, facing the unsure road of IVF treatment, we have to be stronger than ever. Once again, we must go into battle for our happily ever after. Taking that first step was easy. Staying on this road is harder than we thought.
And now, with unexpected obstacles in the way, it’s not a question of if the IVF will succeed. It’s will we be strong enough to stay together and reach for the stars?
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First published July 15, 2020
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Ana Balen
17 books170 followersAna Balen was born in Zagreb, Croatia, where she still lives with her husband, their son (read boss!) and the son’s pet rabbit named Shhh! (or some other gibberish that’s the favorite of their son for the day.)
She spends her days driving her husband up the wall (when he can’t get her ass up from the bed in the mornings), reading and daydreaming, or following orders from a two-year old. In the hectic life she leads (and loves every second of it), she never thought about writing. But, then one day a name popped in her head, then, the snippets of things, and she sat down and started typing. Next thing, she wrote a book. And now, she’s trying to write another one ;)
She spends her days driving her husband up the wall (when he can’t get her ass up from the bed in the mornings), reading and daydreaming, or following orders from a two-year old. In the hectic life she leads (and loves every second of it), she never thought about writing. But, then one day a name popped in her head, then, the snippets of things, and she sat down and started typing. Next thing, she wrote a book. And now, she’s trying to write another one ;)
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July 13, 2018
Wow this one is full of all of the feels, Ana Balens Debut book brings you on Dani and Sam's journey of IVF and the want and longing for a baby so bad you can feel the want jumping from the pages, Dani has a habit of losing her way and it takes Sam to bring her back, Sam I loved the most in this story his passion for his wife knows no limits this book is Sad but Romantic, Fierce but Heartbreaking and Sam's strength holds not only Dani together but the reader together while you go on their journey with them I could never imagine going through something like this but if I were I would want a Sam of my own 5 massive stars Ana you smashed it! Would Sam be my book boyfriend? Hell yes he is my book husband MINE #CLAIMED
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July 21, 2018
I have found a new author to follow, a debut book that is fantastic.
Dani and Sam's story is raw, gritty and emotional. The author invites the reader along for an inside look at the devastation that infertility can have on a couple. We see the struggles that no matter how in love they may be can still year them apart emotionally.
I loved this story, I don't know anyone who has been in this situation but I can imagine the pain. The author conveyed the feelings of both main characters with such heart and depth.
An amazing debut novel.
Dani and Sam's story is raw, gritty and emotional. The author invites the reader along for an inside look at the devastation that infertility can have on a couple. We see the struggles that no matter how in love they may be can still year them apart emotionally.
I loved this story, I don't know anyone who has been in this situation but I can imagine the pain. The author conveyed the feelings of both main characters with such heart and depth.
An amazing debut novel.
August 12, 2018
Can I just say that I love Sam?!? He's everything I've always looked for in a Prince Charming. His love for his wife Dani is worn on his sleeve.
This book was an eye-opener for me. I knew couples that were unable to conceive naturally went through Hell, but this book shared every last detail of that Hell with us. It makes my heart ache so much for Dani and Sam! The fact that she felt she had no one she could be completely honest with hurt the most. I hope my friends (and acquaintances know that I would always be there to listen without judgement.
This next section might be a bit spoilerish (yes, I just made up that word). But there were a few things I loved that I felt were worth mentioning. I loved that Sam's biggest dream for his life was to be a grandfather and watch his grandchildren from his porch with his wife. I loved that he took Dani's dreams and built a crib. I loved how he daily distracted Dani when she wanted a divorce.
This was a great debut book! I can't wait to read what Ms. Balen has in store for us next!
This book was an eye-opener for me. I knew couples that were unable to conceive naturally went through Hell, but this book shared every last detail of that Hell with us. It makes my heart ache so much for Dani and Sam! The fact that she felt she had no one she could be completely honest with hurt the most. I hope my friends (and acquaintances know that I would always be there to listen without judgement.
This next section might be a bit spoilerish (yes, I just made up that word). But there were a few things I loved that I felt were worth mentioning. I loved that Sam's biggest dream for his life was to be a grandfather and watch his grandchildren from his porch with his wife. I loved that he took Dani's dreams and built a crib. I loved how he daily distracted Dani when she wanted a divorce.
This was a great debut book! I can't wait to read what Ms. Balen has in store for us next!
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
September 25, 2018
This book is one of the best books I read in 2018. This is a story about two young and loving people struggling for their future .This is so real and somentimes very sad story about a woman who will do everything for a gift of their life .This is a story of love , sacrifice , hope . This is a story of all couples who are going through In vitro fertilization ,who are scared but determined to go to the end.
This is a debut book of Ana Balen ,and I cant forgive myself for not seeing a mail that she sent me.Sorry Ana,my mistake .
This wonderfull book deserve more than 5 star and Sam is a man that every woman wants in her life.
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This is a debut book of Ana Balen ,and I cant forgive myself for not seeing a mail that she sent me.Sorry Ana,my mistake .
This wonderfull book deserve more than 5 star and Sam is a man that every woman wants in her life.
https://carobnicaiklubmagicnihknjiga....
April 16, 2021
This book immerses you into travelling the IVF path with Dani and Sam; their journey felt painful and raw, with descriptions that seemed as if Dani was journaling every moment of every day. The love and parental desire that Sam and Dani share, is quite something.
I was a little surprised by the change in format towards the end of the book and the throwback to past events, which almost seemed unnecessary to the overall story by the time I got to them, but that aside, the storyline was truly powerful and heart-rending at the same time.
I was a little surprised by the change in format towards the end of the book and the throwback to past events, which almost seemed unnecessary to the overall story by the time I got to them, but that aside, the storyline was truly powerful and heart-rending at the same time.
July 29, 2018
I loved this book, it's beautifully written and at times had me in tears,
March 3, 2019
This is the first book that I have read in 2019 and I must say...this book is a honest, refreshing read about the struggles some women face with infertility. It is also a love story. A love story that made me laugh out loud, cry...real tears and hope with everythign in my that they made it thought the storm that they found themselves in and come out even stronger. I discovered this book and author from an event that I attended and decided that I must read it. I am so glad that I listened to myself!!!
Ana Balen has written a beautiful, honest, and raw love story. She has also given a voice to the millions of women who are stuggling with infertility and feelings of failure. Through Ana's story, I found hope and faith that things will be ok in the end.
Dani and Sam's love story is one that will stand the test of time. There is something magical about this couple that made me wish for their star from the very beginning of this story. I LOVE how Mrs. Balen not only told the story of their personal struggles, but also included a glimpse into the lives of those closest to them who were also affected by what was going on with this couple.
I took my time reading this story and got lost in the world that Mrs. Balen created for her readers. I HIGHLY recommend this story, not only for the love story...but for the battles that Sam & Danni fought through. This book provides comfort, hope, and so much more to the reader. This book is easily a five star read. (There are a few spots where the formatting is off ~ there is no space between words ~ but it is not a distraction from the beautiful story.) I honestly hope that you pick this amazing story up and get lost in this story. You will not be sorry!!!
Ana Balen has written a beautiful, honest, and raw love story. She has also given a voice to the millions of women who are stuggling with infertility and feelings of failure. Through Ana's story, I found hope and faith that things will be ok in the end.
Dani and Sam's love story is one that will stand the test of time. There is something magical about this couple that made me wish for their star from the very beginning of this story. I LOVE how Mrs. Balen not only told the story of their personal struggles, but also included a glimpse into the lives of those closest to them who were also affected by what was going on with this couple.
I took my time reading this story and got lost in the world that Mrs. Balen created for her readers. I HIGHLY recommend this story, not only for the love story...but for the battles that Sam & Danni fought through. This book provides comfort, hope, and so much more to the reader. This book is easily a five star read. (There are a few spots where the formatting is off ~ there is no space between words ~ but it is not a distraction from the beautiful story.) I honestly hope that you pick this amazing story up and get lost in this story. You will not be sorry!!!
June 14, 2018
This debut novel absolutely blew me away with the depth of emotion and characters so real they practically leap off the page. The story is told in dual POV and moves back and forth between the past and present of Dani and Sam's relationship. I found it interesting that we get Dani in first person and Sam in third, something that would normally set my teeth on edge, but somehow, it just works for this one. As we go through the emotional roller coaster that is IVF treatment, I was drawn into Dani's story so effectively that I felt her bitter disappointment at failed attempts, her jealousy at seeing another woman living her dream of becoming a mother, and her love for her husband, Sam. Gah! Sam! Every woman should have a Sam in their life. This romance, and make no mistake, it is a romance, runs the gamut of emotions - heartbreak, disappointment, friendship, hope, and a deep and passionate love.
June 19, 2018
“Wishing for a Star” by Ana Balen
Reads as part memoir, part biography, and a fully realistic and relatable novel.
It is a story of a journey, of a loving and wonderful relationship, and of a couple’s desire to be parents. It is a story of loss, of hope, of love, of fear, of joy and agony...but always one of a couple who were meant to be and carried the other when needed...and eventually got their star.
IVF is a personal choice, a difficult choice, often a hellish path of ups and downs, disappointment and joy. It is a journey that each member of that couple experiences individually and together. It may bring the couple closer or may pull them apart. Some friends and family may understand and some may not.
This is the story of Dani and Sam. But it could be the story of any couple. It is honest, truthful, and beautifully written. One that will make you think and root for every couple out facing fertility issues.
Rating: 4.6
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Reads as part memoir, part biography, and a fully realistic and relatable novel.
It is a story of a journey, of a loving and wonderful relationship, and of a couple’s desire to be parents. It is a story of loss, of hope, of love, of fear, of joy and agony...but always one of a couple who were meant to be and carried the other when needed...and eventually got their star.
IVF is a personal choice, a difficult choice, often a hellish path of ups and downs, disappointment and joy. It is a journey that each member of that couple experiences individually and together. It may bring the couple closer or may pull them apart. Some friends and family may understand and some may not.
This is the story of Dani and Sam. But it could be the story of any couple. It is honest, truthful, and beautifully written. One that will make you think and root for every couple out facing fertility issues.
Rating: 4.6
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June 20, 2018
This is my first read by Ana Balen - I hope it will not be my last. I will admit this one hit me in the heart. Ms. Balen, dove full force into the issues of infertility, the roller coaster ride that it definitely is! I remember the ride, it was years ago but it was as if she was in my head. I remember laying in the back of my husbands pick up truck under the stars and wishing for a baby, any baby to call my own.
Ana, has brought depth to her characters, the pain and joy are palatable. This story is heart breaking at times. (maybe more so because I was in Dani's shoes). We ended our tale differently, my body couldn't handle it. But, God granted me two stars. Our sons didn't grow under my heart, they grew in it. They are two of the most extraordinary human beings to walk the planet.
So, if you need a book with the feels, want to learn a good bit about infertility, I highly recommend this one. Well done Ana
Ana, has brought depth to her characters, the pain and joy are palatable. This story is heart breaking at times. (maybe more so because I was in Dani's shoes). We ended our tale differently, my body couldn't handle it. But, God granted me two stars. Our sons didn't grow under my heart, they grew in it. They are two of the most extraordinary human beings to walk the planet.
So, if you need a book with the feels, want to learn a good bit about infertility, I highly recommend this one. Well done Ana
June 11, 2018
I know y'all know my reviews are a bit long but this one might be longer than usual but please read!
When I read the blurb for this book I instantly knew I had to read it because I hoped for honesty and truth, whether it would be ugly or not. This is the first book that will be published by this author and I am so incredibly grateful she contacted us because she tells an amazing story that a lot of woman go through but no one writes.
This was a very personal read for me because we are struggling with not being able to have a kid and I was a ball of mess reading even the first chapter but this story should be read by EVERYONE! You get those stories of an unexpected pregnancy or the first try and BAM, shes pregnant with triplets but no one ever writes about the other side of some women's stories. The hard struggle that it isn't so easy and the things people say to you that just make what you are going through that much harder.
I will say that a few things annoyed me about Dani, while I understood why she would do what she did and how she overcame certain obstacles but DAMN girl come on! Sam is the ultimate male and husband because even though things didn't start off on a good foundation, he would strive to do anything to make it better. Although, as much as I LOVED Sam and his damn orders and hotness, I was also super pissed off at him for things that could be easily fixed. Also, I really like for both Dani and Sam to have the same POV since Dani was first person keep Sam at first person instead of going to third person. I'm not sure why you chose to do that but for readers its just an easier read to keep them the same.
I saw quite a bit of myself in Dani and the way she would keep her distant from her friends or how she would react to certain situations are exactly how I reacted. But the courage this woman possess is beyond remarkable because for us, after 6 years we still don't have ours. Sam is different than my husband because while I thought Sam was doing all he could do make things better for Dani, I feel like he definitely could have handled several situations better and speak his truth. But I also sense that it was Dani's fault for most of those occasions.
I am 100% in love with this book and the way Ana told this story!! You didn't shy away from the ugly of the truth or did you sugar coat it and I applaud you for being true to us women who don't have it so easy. I hope that you inspire so many woman with the hope of getting their baby because even though I may not get mine, I do have hope and love in my heart for the day I get chosen to be a mother. So many tears but so worth the read!
When I read the blurb for this book I instantly knew I had to read it because I hoped for honesty and truth, whether it would be ugly or not. This is the first book that will be published by this author and I am so incredibly grateful she contacted us because she tells an amazing story that a lot of woman go through but no one writes.
This was a very personal read for me because we are struggling with not being able to have a kid and I was a ball of mess reading even the first chapter but this story should be read by EVERYONE! You get those stories of an unexpected pregnancy or the first try and BAM, shes pregnant with triplets but no one ever writes about the other side of some women's stories. The hard struggle that it isn't so easy and the things people say to you that just make what you are going through that much harder.
I will say that a few things annoyed me about Dani, while I understood why she would do what she did and how she overcame certain obstacles but DAMN girl come on! Sam is the ultimate male and husband because even though things didn't start off on a good foundation, he would strive to do anything to make it better. Although, as much as I LOVED Sam and his damn orders and hotness, I was also super pissed off at him for things that could be easily fixed. Also, I really like for both Dani and Sam to have the same POV since Dani was first person keep Sam at first person instead of going to third person. I'm not sure why you chose to do that but for readers its just an easier read to keep them the same.
I saw quite a bit of myself in Dani and the way she would keep her distant from her friends or how she would react to certain situations are exactly how I reacted. But the courage this woman possess is beyond remarkable because for us, after 6 years we still don't have ours. Sam is different than my husband because while I thought Sam was doing all he could do make things better for Dani, I feel like he definitely could have handled several situations better and speak his truth. But I also sense that it was Dani's fault for most of those occasions.
I am 100% in love with this book and the way Ana told this story!! You didn't shy away from the ugly of the truth or did you sugar coat it and I applaud you for being true to us women who don't have it so easy. I hope that you inspire so many woman with the hope of getting their baby because even though I may not get mine, I do have hope and love in my heart for the day I get chosen to be a mother. So many tears but so worth the read!
October 17, 2019
An emotional ride
This was my first book by Ana Balen and though I knew what the story would entailed I hadn't expected to be so touched and swept by so many emotions. It was so beautifully tragic that I loved everything about it.
The story was straightforward - it was about a couple (Sam and Dani) trying to conceive through IVF and the hearing it had on their married life and Dani psyche especially. But despite being a simple story delaying with very complex and sensitive subjects, it was executed to perfection by interweaving the past and present, together will small chapters from Sam's POV in between and some Italian texts (significance of which I understood only towards the end). Initially I did find it a little hard to follow the transition to between past and present and also the present morphing to recent past as a memory but once I got used to it, I understood their significance and then I actually felt that author made a smart move by trying to balance the various emotions through such a pacing and alternate chapters.
What I particularly loved about this book was the realistic take it took on IVF and what the couple going through such a treatment actually experience. It wasn't filled with too much medical jargon but explained the scenarios pretty well. The insecurities of Dani, her being ashamed about not being able to conceive a baby normally and her anxiety over people and society judging her were displayed and written in a way that truly sinks in and makes us to emphasize with her and hurt for me, especially with all the pain she bears and her inability to express it to anyone who could truly understand. And on the other hand, we had Sam. He was the perfect husband any woman can ask for. Supportive and never pushing, and so very understanding, but despite his best efforts, he couldn't break through her shell at times and it was neither of their fault. And that's when I felt the saddest.
This is hands down on the most emotional book of the year for me and it's not just a book, it's a journey with a plethora of emotions and feelings. 5 stars for this.
This was my first book by Ana Balen and though I knew what the story would entailed I hadn't expected to be so touched and swept by so many emotions. It was so beautifully tragic that I loved everything about it.
The story was straightforward - it was about a couple (Sam and Dani) trying to conceive through IVF and the hearing it had on their married life and Dani psyche especially. But despite being a simple story delaying with very complex and sensitive subjects, it was executed to perfection by interweaving the past and present, together will small chapters from Sam's POV in between and some Italian texts (significance of which I understood only towards the end). Initially I did find it a little hard to follow the transition to between past and present and also the present morphing to recent past as a memory but once I got used to it, I understood their significance and then I actually felt that author made a smart move by trying to balance the various emotions through such a pacing and alternate chapters.
What I particularly loved about this book was the realistic take it took on IVF and what the couple going through such a treatment actually experience. It wasn't filled with too much medical jargon but explained the scenarios pretty well. The insecurities of Dani, her being ashamed about not being able to conceive a baby normally and her anxiety over people and society judging her were displayed and written in a way that truly sinks in and makes us to emphasize with her and hurt for me, especially with all the pain she bears and her inability to express it to anyone who could truly understand. And on the other hand, we had Sam. He was the perfect husband any woman can ask for. Supportive and never pushing, and so very understanding, but despite his best efforts, he couldn't break through her shell at times and it was neither of their fault. And that's when I felt the saddest.
This is hands down on the most emotional book of the year for me and it's not just a book, it's a journey with a plethora of emotions and feelings. 5 stars for this.
January 28, 2019
Get ready for the rollercoaster ride!
Wow. Just. Wow.
As one of those women who can get pregnant just looking at a baby I was amazed. Don't get me wrong, I have a friend who went through infertility issues. In fact, this book was recommended to me from her. I believe her exact words were: "This book really puts everything I went through into words." Sure we had talked about her experiences, but there are always those things that go on behind closed doors, between a couple, that you don't/can't talk about. So I knew it was not just a physical, but also emotional struggle. A marathon of sorts. But now, now I can really appreciate the process so much more. Maybe appreciate isn't the right word. Maybe I should say understand. But, appreciate sounds right. I can appreciate why my friend is the way she is with her child. I can appreciate why she's unimpressed when I argue with my old man. Her disbelief when I whine about my kids. It's because I now understand all she went through - her struggles with her husband, her desire to be a mom, her love for her child.
If anyone wants to experience walking in the shoes of a couple struggling with infertility this is the book for you. But it is so much more than that. It is a love story to top them all. You get to experience the love of Dani & Sam. You get a front row seat to their lives. Getting to experience the highs and lows, the struggles, the passion, the heartaches, the joys, and the triumphs. This book truly has ALL the feels!!!
I honestly don't understand why this book isn't more well known. The characters were fabulous. The emotions were real. The way the author included scenes from their past into the story painted a very real and vivid picture of their lives. I felt myself get pulled into the story. I cheered them on. I cried for them. I could feel their struggles and deepest desires.
Now I am off to see if Anna Balen has anymore books out!
Wow. Just. Wow.
As one of those women who can get pregnant just looking at a baby I was amazed. Don't get me wrong, I have a friend who went through infertility issues. In fact, this book was recommended to me from her. I believe her exact words were: "This book really puts everything I went through into words." Sure we had talked about her experiences, but there are always those things that go on behind closed doors, between a couple, that you don't/can't talk about. So I knew it was not just a physical, but also emotional struggle. A marathon of sorts. But now, now I can really appreciate the process so much more. Maybe appreciate isn't the right word. Maybe I should say understand. But, appreciate sounds right. I can appreciate why my friend is the way she is with her child. I can appreciate why she's unimpressed when I argue with my old man. Her disbelief when I whine about my kids. It's because I now understand all she went through - her struggles with her husband, her desire to be a mom, her love for her child.
If anyone wants to experience walking in the shoes of a couple struggling with infertility this is the book for you. But it is so much more than that. It is a love story to top them all. You get to experience the love of Dani & Sam. You get a front row seat to their lives. Getting to experience the highs and lows, the struggles, the passion, the heartaches, the joys, and the triumphs. This book truly has ALL the feels!!!
I honestly don't understand why this book isn't more well known. The characters were fabulous. The emotions were real. The way the author included scenes from their past into the story painted a very real and vivid picture of their lives. I felt myself get pulled into the story. I cheered them on. I cried for them. I could feel their struggles and deepest desires.
Now I am off to see if Anna Balen has anymore books out!
June 18, 2018
For a first book, this author did a wonderful job with a very strong and emotional topic as infertility. I am sure it was a topic close to home as it was so truthfully told with all the disappointments and shuffles along the way. This is a very strong and relevant topic as more and more couples struggle to have the family and dream they desperately want. IVF can sometimes be the saving grace for these couples and can give them the little miracles they so desperately seek. I was lucky in my life to not have this issue but know of many that been living this same story this past year or two. Motherhood is full of struggles, joy and a blessing from the moment you dream about having a baby to your last dying breath. More women need to write there stories to give inspiration and knowledge to others to help them with there own journey during this difficult time.
As this was the author's first book the story was very well written and the flow was entertaining and had me turning the page in anticipation of what would happen next. The love that the two characters had for each other was felt through the words of the author and had me many time heartbroken and sad. Underlining this book is a great romance story that is hidden in a personal struggle to start a family. The chemistry between Sam and Dani heats up the pages as they do their best to stay connected.
You can read my full review at www.readingfortheloveofbooks.com
As this was the author's first book the story was very well written and the flow was entertaining and had me turning the page in anticipation of what would happen next. The love that the two characters had for each other was felt through the words of the author and had me many time heartbroken and sad. Underlining this book is a great romance story that is hidden in a personal struggle to start a family. The chemistry between Sam and Dani heats up the pages as they do their best to stay connected.
You can read my full review at www.readingfortheloveofbooks.com
December 14, 2019
Written in an incredibly personal and very detailed way WISHING FOR A STAR is a book I went into completely "blind". I had no idea what length, author, etc.
The narrative of the story changes - it is told in first person from the female's perspective and third person from the male's perspective. This threw me off as the story unfolded and once I got used to the cadence and understand why I was being distracted, I was able to settle in for the story.
The love between the two main protagonists is stunning. The dedication he has for her is akin to # couplegoals and made me realize the little things my husband and I do for each other really DO mean a lot. The struggle this couple wrestles with is one that I have been a witness to, but have not had the experience of. After reading this story, I feel as if I have a more compassionate understanding of the whole process.
I read this book in one sitting and enjoyed the author's notes at the end of the story to discover more about the author and her life.
The narrative of the story changes - it is told in first person from the female's perspective and third person from the male's perspective. This threw me off as the story unfolded and once I got used to the cadence and understand why I was being distracted, I was able to settle in for the story.
The love between the two main protagonists is stunning. The dedication he has for her is akin to # couplegoals and made me realize the little things my husband and I do for each other really DO mean a lot. The struggle this couple wrestles with is one that I have been a witness to, but have not had the experience of. After reading this story, I feel as if I have a more compassionate understanding of the whole process.
I read this book in one sitting and enjoyed the author's notes at the end of the story to discover more about the author and her life.
June 19, 2018
“Wishing for a Star” by Ana Balen
Reads as part memoir, part biography, and a fully realistic and relatable novel.
It is a story of a journey, of a loving and wonderful relationship, and of a couple’s desire to be parents. It is a story of loss, of hope, of love, of fear, of joy and agony...but always one of a couple who were meant to be and carried the other when needed...and eventually got their star.
IVF is a personal choice, a difficult choice, often a hellish path of ups and downs, disappointment and joy. It is a journey that each member of that couple experiences individually and together. It may bring the couple closer or may pull them apart. Some friends and family may understand and some may not.
This is the story of Dani and Sam. But it could be the story of any couple. It is honest, truthful, and beautifully written. One that will make you think and root for every couple out facing fertility issues.
Rating: 4.6
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Reads as part memoir, part biography, and a fully realistic and relatable novel.
It is a story of a journey, of a loving and wonderful relationship, and of a couple’s desire to be parents. It is a story of loss, of hope, of love, of fear, of joy and agony...but always one of a couple who were meant to be and carried the other when needed...and eventually got their star.
IVF is a personal choice, a difficult choice, often a hellish path of ups and downs, disappointment and joy. It is a journey that each member of that couple experiences individually and together. It may bring the couple closer or may pull them apart. Some friends and family may understand and some may not.
This is the story of Dani and Sam. But it could be the story of any couple. It is honest, truthful, and beautifully written. One that will make you think and root for every couple out facing fertility issues.
Rating: 4.6
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June 18, 2018
Wishing For A Star tackles a very sensitive subject with grace and taste, and brings forth so many emotions that I both laughed and cried as I traveled along with Dani and Sam on their journey to parenthood. The characters are so, so relatable, as is their IVF journey. There is a sweetness to their story, a grabbing prologue, and a HEA that is so very different but just as heartwarming as the romance novels I typically read! While this story isn't your traditional romance book, it is a gripping story of love, loss, healing, faith and hope. And having suffered a pregnancy loss myself, I felt Dani's need and fears and everything else she went through in relation to motherhood.
Wishing For A Star was the first book I've read by Ana Balen, and I will definitely be on the lookout for more from her in the future! I received an advanced copy and voluntarily left a review.
Wishing For A Star was the first book I've read by Ana Balen, and I will definitely be on the lookout for more from her in the future! I received an advanced copy and voluntarily left a review.
July 19, 2018
Oh wow, what an incredible book.
What the majority if us take for granted, is a real struggle for some.
This is Dani and Sam's story. Their journey, how their faith, faith in each other is tested. The hard and incredibly emotional journey of AI.
This gives you insight into the real life struggles, heartache, losses - loss of hope, faith, being that is involved in infertility and the journey to try other methods and the toll they take on you; your body and relationship, especially your relationship with yourself.
Wishing on a Star is an incredible story, that will touch parts if you, you never realised existed. It's one of those stories that will stick with you, give you empathy with those who struggle and their journey. A brilliant read!
I voluntarily read this ARC and am giving my honest and unbiased opinion of the book as I experienced it.
What the majority if us take for granted, is a real struggle for some.
This is Dani and Sam's story. Their journey, how their faith, faith in each other is tested. The hard and incredibly emotional journey of AI.
This gives you insight into the real life struggles, heartache, losses - loss of hope, faith, being that is involved in infertility and the journey to try other methods and the toll they take on you; your body and relationship, especially your relationship with yourself.
Wishing on a Star is an incredible story, that will touch parts if you, you never realised existed. It's one of those stories that will stick with you, give you empathy with those who struggle and their journey. A brilliant read!
I voluntarily read this ARC and am giving my honest and unbiased opinion of the book as I experienced it.
August 19, 2018
What an amazing debut novel. I was extremely impressed and engrossed in the story and the emotions. This is one of those subjects that is just so hard to address. What do you say to a woman who is unable to conceive? It's true we all walk on eggshells, have no idea what to say or do and hate that what we consider good news will send them spiraling. All she wanted was her own star. This book is the emotional journey of a couple who loved each other so much she would rather divorce him than not have him receive his dream of being a grandfather. This emotional journey is filled with flashbacks to them getting together and different points of their lives. Each chapter is started with quotes from the author's own journey. It is a beautiful well written story, one this debut author can be proud of and that you will enjoy.
October 29, 2018
I am so emotional after reading this book, I've had my heart sucked out. I could totally empathise with both Dani and Sam as they journey through the hardest time of their lives, coping with IVF. What an epic story about emotional heartbreak and depression. It's easy to imagine the mood swings and utter despair that couples go through, I was going through it with them and, although Dani was flip-flopping through her decisions, I could totally understand her reasoning.
This story really gets the tears going and makes you grateful for modern medical miracles.
This is a nicely written story which you will need to have tissues at hand to read but it's worth the tears as the story feels autobiographical, it became that real to me. It was a little confusing with the past/present at times but still a heart rendering read that I would recommend.
This story really gets the tears going and makes you grateful for modern medical miracles.
This is a nicely written story which you will need to have tissues at hand to read but it's worth the tears as the story feels autobiographical, it became that real to me. It was a little confusing with the past/present at times but still a heart rendering read that I would recommend.
June 24, 2018
This is a very emotional book.
No kidding.
I knew it was going to be a heavy drama because I read the synopsis. But after reading the book - wow.
There is a slow pent up of emotions. It just did not rain all sad stuffs at once - well, actually it did. The whole fertility issue is given at the first part of the book. But the way it was written, it is like giving you an in-depth view of what the heroine was feeling. Reading it is like being , thinking her thoughts, feeling her emotions, being in the moment. It kind of makes it hard to put the book down.
Only thing I did not like are the transitions, like you could not tell if it was a memory or part of the present.
But overall, I love a book that makes you feel like you are really in it so this book is a 5 star for me
No kidding.
I knew it was going to be a heavy drama because I read the synopsis. But after reading the book - wow.
There is a slow pent up of emotions. It just did not rain all sad stuffs at once - well, actually it did. The whole fertility issue is given at the first part of the book. But the way it was written, it is like giving you an in-depth view of what the heroine was feeling. Reading it is like being , thinking her thoughts, feeling her emotions, being in the moment. It kind of makes it hard to put the book down.
Only thing I did not like are the transitions, like you could not tell if it was a memory or part of the present.
But overall, I love a book that makes you feel like you are really in it so this book is a 5 star for me
September 28, 2018
Stars are everything!
This is the debut novel from this author. My TBR pile is so long I really shouldn’t have read this. I was drawn to it after reading the blurb. The subject matter is at times difficult to take. I found myself with tears running down my face. Parts of this are so descriptive of this couples dream as well as their nightmare it’s tough to go through. It’s so hard to think what most of us take for granted can be impossible for others. Without spoilers the attention given to the technical process was brutal. To take something so beautiful and have it reduced to a procedure broke my heart. This story travels back and forth between past and present and flows well. If given the opportunity you should read it! (Keep a box of tissues with you)
This is the debut novel from this author. My TBR pile is so long I really shouldn’t have read this. I was drawn to it after reading the blurb. The subject matter is at times difficult to take. I found myself with tears running down my face. Parts of this are so descriptive of this couples dream as well as their nightmare it’s tough to go through. It’s so hard to think what most of us take for granted can be impossible for others. Without spoilers the attention given to the technical process was brutal. To take something so beautiful and have it reduced to a procedure broke my heart. This story travels back and forth between past and present and flows well. If given the opportunity you should read it! (Keep a box of tissues with you)
June 14, 2018
I didn't feel the connection to the characters I'd have liked to have. Even though I felt some feels, with a subject matter this potentially emotional and difficult to talk about, I wanted all the feels. The author stops short of truly ripping my heart out. I believe for those women who have gone through this experience, it's a short jump to tap into their own emotions and empathize with Dani or even Sam. But for those of us who have to stand at the sidelines struggling to understand, I didn't quite get the connection I was hoping to feel.
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June 17, 2018
This is a debut novel from this author, and I am totally amazed at the way in which she wrote about such a sensitive subject, which affects so many women, yet is has not been written about before. Dani and Sam’s story is told in dual POV, and goes from present to past, which gives a better understanding of these characters. This story is raw, gritty, emotional, heartbreaking, hopeful, passionate, and an all round powerful story. This is a beautifully written story, which had me totally intrigued and captivated throughout. I will certainly be adding this talented author to my favourites and 1-click lists, as this is a phenomenal debut, and hats off to the author!!
June 17, 2018
This is a debut novel from this author, and I am totally amazed at the way in which she wrote about such a sensitive subject, which affects so many women, yet is has not been written about before. Dani and Sam’s story is told in dual POV, and goes from present to past, which gives a better understanding of these characters. This story is raw, gritty, emotional, heartbreaking, hopeful, passionate, and an all round powerful story. This is a beautifully written story, which had me totally intrigued and captivated throughout. I will certainly be adding this talented author to my favourites and 1-click lists, as this is a phenomenal debut, and hats off to the author!!
September 11, 2018
____New Author Alert_________
First, the cover art and the title is perfect for the storyline.
This author tackled a sensitive subject matter, but nevertheless; it was written so beautifully. Not ashamed to admit, I shed a lot of tears.
The only warning I have about this book is … don't listen to it at work, like I did. I tried to stop listening, but I couldn't. If the warning is disregarded, have plenty of Kleenex close by or wear a long sleeve shirt. The choice is yours because tears are going to happen.
Lastly, without a doubt, your next book boyfriend can be found in Wishing For A Star.
P.S. Author Balen, just gained a new follower!!
First, the cover art and the title is perfect for the storyline.
This author tackled a sensitive subject matter, but nevertheless; it was written so beautifully. Not ashamed to admit, I shed a lot of tears.
The only warning I have about this book is … don't listen to it at work, like I did. I tried to stop listening, but I couldn't. If the warning is disregarded, have plenty of Kleenex close by or wear a long sleeve shirt. The choice is yours because tears are going to happen.
Lastly, without a doubt, your next book boyfriend can be found in Wishing For A Star.
P.S. Author Balen, just gained a new follower!!
December 24, 2019
When I first started this book, I wasn't sure what to expect. As I got deeper into it, though, I was floored by how emotionally raw it was. As someone who has not gone through infertility - but has suffered the loss of a child - I found myself relating with Dani's grief and depression on so many levels. I felt so many emotions reading this book: anger over their situation, sadness over their unsuccessful IVF loss, happiness when they had their good moments, amusement at some of the flashbacks - and so many more. Reading about Dani and Sam's journey to their star was one of the more emotional stories I've read this year, and I'm so glad I read this book.
June 14, 2018
This is the first novel that I have read by this Author and I hope to see many more. I loved this book! The author explores a difficult subject in a sensitive and respectful way. The characters were realistic and believable, and I felt like I was truly taking a journey with them. I was so completely wrapped up in this story that I laughed when they laughed and cried when they cried. I finished the book feeling like the characters were part of my family and I was grateful to have had a glimpse into their world. SIDE NOTE: God Bless and Good Luck to anyone going through this struggle.
June 14, 2018
This is the first novel that I have read by this author and I hope to see many more. I loved this book! The author explores a difficult subject in a sensitive and respectful way. The characters were realistic and believable, and I felt like I was truly taking a journey with them. I was so completely wrapped up in this story that I laughed when they laughed and cried when they cried. I finished the book feeling like the characters were part of my family and I was grateful to have had a glimpse into their world. SIDE NOTE: God bless and Good Luck to anyone going through this struggle.
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