Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory – and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
- The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies
- How to work through ultimatums in relationships
- Why your sex life should evolve over time
Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at sexwithemily.com/aita.
Show Notes:
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Episode Highlights:
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