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1 | About this document: | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
2 | author nacchi (she/her) @nacchiraltwenty ko-fi.com/nacchi | Hey there, This document came into being due to personal necessity and stands on the shoulders of all the creators that are mentioned in the TTRPG Toolkit compiled by Kienna Shaw and Lauren Bryant-Monk and the safety mechanics used by Machine Age Productions game #iHunt. It is not meant to be used instead of a conversation but as a way to facilitate and support one. You could, for example, use it in your session zero, or really, whenever you feel like this is a topic you should talk about in detail. This document is not intended to be exhaustive, but is to be used to give a foundation to draw your own ideas from. It is meant to be copied and modified according to the needs and wants of your group, so that you have a place to easily compile whatever you decide upon. I hope this will make it possible for you to have all the romance and heartache you want at your table in exactly the amount everyone is comfortable with. Have fun playing all the games and stay safe on your adventures! ~nacchi | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
3 | Abbreviations | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
4 | NPC PC | Non-Player Character Player Character | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
5 | Credits | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
6 | The Digital RPG Consent Checklist: Read Me | https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-vWWzYUb4GqSTpP67Xzo8r3rJewL2-zQb0PDAdIwxUQ/edit The Digital RPG Consent Checklist was created for the TTRPG Safety Toolkit and is adapted from the RPG Consent Checklist that appears in the Consent in Gaming supplement by Sean K. Reynolds and Shanna Germain, published by Monte Cook Games. It can be found at https://www.montecookgames.com/store/product/consent-in-gaming/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
7 | #iHunt (Safety Mechanics) | https://ihunt.fun/ by Machine Age Productions | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
8 | More on the topic: | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
9 | English | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
10 | TTRPG Safety Toolkit | The TTRPG Safety Toolkit is a resource created by Kienna Shaw and Lauren Bryant-Monk. The TTRPG Safety Toolkit is a compilation of safety tools that have been designed by members of the tabletop roleplaying games community for use by players and GMs at the table. You can find it at bit.ly/ttrpgsafetytoolkit | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
11 | Consent in Gaming PDF by Monte Cook | https://www.montecookgames.com/consent-in-gaming/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
12 | ACTUAL advice on smooching and romance in TTRPGs: (A Thread by Summer @justasummerjob) | https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1090632262746497024.html https://twitter.com/justasummerjob/status/1278762288044863489 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
13 | Another conversation about romance & sexual intimacy in TTRPGs! (A Thread by Summer @justasummerjob) | https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1278762288044863489.html?refreshed=yes https://twitter.com/justasummerjob/status/1090632262746497024 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
14 | Love and Sex in the Ninth World | https://www.drivethrurpg.com/product/126065/Love-and-Sex-in-the-Ninth-World | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
15 | Asians Represent: Episode 16: Romantic Representation in Hollywood and Romance in TTRPGs | http://oneshotpodcast.com/asians-represent/episode-16-romantic-representation-in-hollywood-and-romance-in-ttrpgs/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
16 | Asians Represent: Episode 19: Sex, Relationships, & TTRPGs ft. Sharang Biswas & Clio Yun-su Davis | http://oneshotpodcast.com/asians-represent/honeyandhotwax/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
17 | Safe Hearts (A guide to navigating boundaries and vulnerability in Monsterhearts) | http://buriedwithoutceremony.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/safe-hearts.pdf | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
18 | The American Sex Podcast The Kink & Gaming Crossover with Shanna Germain Ep 109 American Sex Podcast | http://sunnymegatron.com/kink-gaming-shanna-germain/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
19 | X Card (original) by John Stavropoulos | https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SB0jsx34bWHZWbnNIVVuMjhDkrdFGo1_hSC2BWPlI3A/edit | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
20 | Lines & Veils Tool (by Jamila Nedjari) | https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1QM7-8d0QusVI1C-lGd9ZplO3s6Jgz_Puuwm8CFoErxM/edit#gid=1376073379 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
21 | Sharing the Cognitive Load by Gerrit Reininghaus | discussing mental load as facilitator and has a template to introduce tone, safety and finally debrief into your session https://alles-ist-zahl.blogspot.com/2019/02/sharing-coginitive-load.html | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
22 | Asians Represent The Wrap Up: How to include romance & intimacy in D&D | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e--NXwjwYgA | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
23 | German | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
24 | German Version of Romance and Sex in your TTRPG | https://bit.ly/ttrpgromantik | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
25 | Sammlung verschiedener Sicherheitsmechaniken
(gemacht und übersetzt von nacchiraltwenty) | http://bit.ly/ttrpgsicherheit | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
26 | Genderswapped Podcast Episode 5 Liebe, Sex und Romantik im Rollenspiel | https://genderswapped-podcast.podigee.io/7-episode5 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
27 | Genderswapped Podcast Episode 6 Romantik und Sex in Regeln | https://genderswapped-podcast.podigee.io/9-episode6 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
28 | Nerd ist Ihr Hobby Folge 11-12 Sicherheit im Spiel 1 & 2 | https://nerdistihrhobby.podigee.io/12-sicherheit1 https://nerdistihrhobby.podigee.io/13-sicherheit2 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
29 | Sicherheitstechniken im Pen-&-Paper-Rollenspiel von Tina Trillitzsch | https://spielen.trillitzsch.net/sicherheitskarte/#sicherheitstechniken-im-pen-paper-rollenspiel | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
30 | X-Karte (Deutsch) Übersetzt von Julian Kluge | https://docs.google.com/document/d/19S7z66Vwt1P0FnOnhdmUkHpKtEN1o0ohm_W2702GJjQ/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
31 | Mit Vorteil Session Zero | https://youtu.be/4H_wx_b3q8c | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
32 | Mit Vorteil Session Zero (ausgeschrieben) | https://www.dnddeutsch.de/mit-vorteil-wieso-ich-immer-eine-session-zero-mache-und-wie-auch-dir-das-gelingt/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
33 | Linien und Schleier Tool von Mario Salamander | https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/12Vce1c_O8SfoUguastWrLgVqgxqF0ZQ6LT9kJzz11vI/edit#gid=1392686673 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
34 | Techniken und Werkzeuge via 3W6 Podcast Community | https://bit.ly/RPGSicherheit | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
35 | A personal thank you | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
36 | Thank you so much for your constructive criticism, feedback and all the cheerleading. You lift me up <3! | Voro (er/ihm) @Vorotex; Red (they/them) @RedTheBabyDM; Wayne (er/ihm) @wayneoween; Lilliana (sie/ihr/they) @Lilliana_S; pasuht (er/ihm) @pasuht; Mathias Belger (er/ihm); Wittko (er/ihm); Dyn Quing (sier/er) @trotzflocke; Aggi (sie/ihr) @AggiRoll; Pete (er/ihm) @pete_lectro & Tahina Andale (sie/ihr) @Tahina_Andale | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
37 | Version | Comments/Changes | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
38 | 1 | 05/20 release | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
39 | 1.1 | some changes to formatting; "don't care" column added; group sheet added (to collect all the necessary information in one sheet for the whole group instead of individually) added links courtesy of Gerrit Reininghaus (thank you!) | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
40 | 1.2 | added links and new resources | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
41 | 1.3 | added links and new resources | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
42 | 1.4 | 09/21 added links and new resources | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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